basics: i’m 25, nonbinary (born female, i use he/him, i look androgynous but am equally comfortable being masculine and feminine.) curvy and am a side/bottom. you can find more pics of me on my profile.

now that that’s out of the way, here’s my little message in a bottle:

i’m curled up on the sofa of my apartment right now, with a profound sense of something being missing. it might sound dramatic or silly, but i feel like a puppy in a box on the side of the road!! (the puppy metaphors don’t stop if you decide you want to meet me, by the way.)

i would like to think i’m a fairly successful little thing. i live alone, i have a small zoo of wonderful pets, i have a decent-paying job, i’m in therapy, i maintain my friendships, i have hobbies! but i’m STILL aching, and i hope any good dominant will know what i mean. the need to be owned, the need to be led, and the need to have a trustworthy leader to follow is constantly pervasive and burning and aching. some people have called this being a true submissive — i disagree, i don’t like gatekeeping, but it’s my truth. i need to be owned.

if you haven’t guessed, my particular flavor of this is typically through being a puppy!! whether it be fluffy ears and tail puppy, or hooded puppy, i’m either. if that’s not your scene, i’m also a bit of a little boy, although i’m still exploring that part of myself. these are much, more than just ways to make sex hotter for me — the headspace is important, comfort is important, and most importantly, mutual enjoyment is important!!! so if you don’t enjoy your kink with equal parts cuddling and basking in how good and weird it all is, i might not be for you. outside of physicality i love rules, discipline, tasks and tracking.

as for kinks, i recommend you check out my fetlife — i have a super long list there — but generally, i enjoy

my hard limits are illegality, PnP, and emotional sadism.

at this point i have a few fwbs that i really enjoy playing with, but i am truly searching for a partner in crime. someone that wants to put their time and energy into a very loyal puppy, and build something wonderful together. i have been experimenting with being poly but i’m not sure it’s for me. i would be happiest in an one on one dynamic. i am also completely open to relocation for the right person.

i’m very pansexual and very demi, so how we interact is much more important to me than how you look (everyone’s hot until they’re mean to me, basically) but since i’m the one with my butt all over reddit it’d mean a lot to me if you could share a photo or two back. think of it as a gesture of trust hehehe.

if you’re interesting in possibly adopting this good boy, please shoot a message. he’s free to a good home.

can’t wait to hear from you 💞