Well, let's back up a little. First things first. I'm a dom-leaning switch. I hate labels, but that's a close approximation. I value vanilla traits more than kink. If we vibe well, I can morph into whatever kinky role you desire.

I value shared principles, beliefs, and life habits. Here's my quick rundown: single, monogamous, ethics, kindness, non-extreme politics, frank and communicative, emotional maturity, work out and healthy food, no substance dependencies.

My looks: If you prefer weathered looks, I will disappoint. My genetics gave me looks that resemble men a decade younger. The silver lining is that we are unlikely to attract disapproving looks from strangers. Not a giant but not short enough to have limb lengthening procedure. Skinny but muscled with a six pack. I don't smoke, drink, or use drugs, nor do I take any medication.

Status: I have no lingering ex, jealous wife, or kids. You could say I'm a seasoned clean slate. I hope you're the same.

Vanilla stuff: We could discuss the pros and cons of electric cars, the best supplements for living longer and healthier, the effects of the latest rate cut on the economy, the most reliable appliance brands, the kinds of vegetables suitable for the home garden, luxury and off the beaten path travel destinations, architectural styles for our home, what equipment for our home gym, holiday home locations, portfolio allocation, private school choices for our children, well, I'm getting ahead of myself here.

We need to back up a bit. There's a discussion about our playroom. If you know what I mean.

Kinks: I practice informed consent. Limits and safe words are a must. There's no such thing as no limits. I want to please and pleasure you as much as you do I. I'm not into unhygienic things, bi, poly, permanent harm, or things that are considered extreme or fringe even in kink.

Contact: I would prefer getting to know one another, then getting a real life meeting set up in a reasonable time. (That depends on where we are relative to each other) Vetting will happen, for both our safety.

DM or send a chat, either is fine. Say something about yourself and what resonates with you.

Not interested in: - being a rebound - fwb, ons - catfish, scammer, pros, sellers, or anything in between.