hi! Writing this because I've realized that while living a life I'm mostly happy with as is (job, home security, living in a nice city), I'm missing that someone to share it with that likes similar things that I do, so I'd like to fix that!

To put it out there to save myself the trouble (since I'm realizing that the only thing that matters at first apparently is looks no matter the personality), I'm a 6'1 hispanic soft-ish dominant pictured here: https://imgur.com/a/6IOSu8Z

With that out the way if you're still here, I'm a guy that absolutely knows what he wants long term in a future partner. To me, that is:

• Someone open to biological children (yes, I want to be a dad and have wanted to for quite some time. I was fortunate enough to be raised well and I'd love to continue that)
• Someone open to marriage (similar reasons as above)
• Someone open to relocation (I've worked hard to have the space I have, I want to share it and actually use it ha)
• Someone younger than me. As I'll explain further, I have an insatiable age gap kink (in every way imaginable) and after having my first few relationships with an older woman, I want what I want this time and I do not want to budge on this. I don't actually mind if the gap isn't very big, but I want to be the older one, that's what I know for sure and do not want to budge on this.
• Someone open to sharing a sfw photo that gives me a chance to make an honest decision about attraction. I've had a couple awkward irl meets with people from here due to deceptive angles from photos, so more than just a face picture please.

As for what I actually want a relationship to look like? To me, that's someone who enjoys being equally nerdy just as much as someone who likes being taboo. For example, I'm into:

• Mutual degradation when it comes to age gaps. I love being "degraded" for being the older man (even if I'm not actually that much older), so if you're into ddlg/cgl and are comfortable in a sexual little/middle space, front of the line! Happy to explain further, though I am open to like, literally anything in this regard!
• Someone that believes that a relationship should be free flowing. While I do NOT want to be sexual off the bat necessarily, I want to know that there's at least an openness to talking about intimacy at some point since chemistry does matter (and I'd like to find out sooner rather than later after invest 2-4 months just to realize it isn't there)
• While I'm happy to go on, I of course really really want to spend quite a lot of time enjoy sfw things together, but I don't want to make this much longer than it needs to be, heh. I'd love to talk more about myself beyond what I share on here (and learn about you) privately!

I understand its a little direct to make a detailed post like this, but I've been having to search for as long as I have because it seems finding someone on the same page is excruciatingly difficult and I am just trying to save us both time.

Otherwise, to share more about me, I'm a pretty nerdy dude with a tech job, a place, I feel like I'm really easy to talk to (and I love the hell out of video games as much as board games). i love talking about sports and trying anything new twice (mostly). I've been to 20 states and I'd love to add more places to travel to!

If you think we'd click and the honesty and openness does it for you, I'd love to chat!

I must admit, I have a preference to opposites attract, so while I'm hispanic, I prefer those of different backgrounds than me (I've dated white, black, etc), so I have a strong preference to someone white, asian, european, chinese, korean, but I am not opposed to anyone)!