Maybe the thought of having guy wrapped around your finger has always intrigued you, but you never sent that first message. Maybe you get excited at the thought of a having control over a desperate guy begging you for relief. Maybe the idea of teasing him a bit, or even be a little mean, is inexplicably arousing. Or maybe you're an experienced Domme who knows exactly what she likes and is looking for her next plaything.

I'm a male sub looking to build a connection with a Domme who you would enjoy those feelings of having control over someone. My hope is that our dynamic could be relatively low pressure for you, so that I can be a fun and pleasurable outlet for you without becoming a responsibility. I want to feel empowered to demand what you want, but not feel like you have to perform or live up to any preconceived expectations or be a kink dispenser.

My hope is that we could build a connection beyond just kink, both because sometimes it's just nice to talk, but also because it enhances the dynamic to have that connection. There's something appealing about going from having a pleasant conversation in the evening to me having to ask for your permission to masturbate when we're ready to go to bed.

I'm 38m from the US EDT, 5'9 160lb, brown hair, brown eyes, beard, white with tan complexion -- decent shape and decently attractive (happy to send pics). Single and have my life together. Vanilla interests include gardening and cooking, outdoorsy things (hiking/camping/backpacking), casual gaming, and various diy endeavors, among other things. As a sub I'm obedient and eager to please, vocal (e.g. moaning or begging, depending on the circumstances), and willing to perform on cam if and when you want it.

Some of my kinks include orgasm control (edging, denial, forced), service or worship (I want this to be about your wants and desires), humiliation/degradation (can make me feel very submissive), desperation (like needing to cum or needing to pee), light pain (I find giving myself pain for your amusement very kinky), rules/restrictions (again, makes me feel very submissive), and a variety of other things. Ultimately, I crave the feeling of being subservient to you, and these are all things that make me feel that way.

As for you, I'm open to a variety of ages (18 ) and body types. It's not important to me that you have past experience as a Domme, because I envision this being more organic and free flowing, without the pressure of rigid protocols (until and unless you establish them). Similar timezones are helpful, but not ultimately open to you being anyway, as long as this dynamic appeals to you and you're decent at communicating.

Hope you'll say hi!/