Hi all. Hoping to find a kind submissive girl, aged 24-35, to build a loving, long-term D/s relationship with.

I'm interested in a 24/7 dynamic with clear rules as much as the softer aspects of doting on a sub. Let's slowly build towards a Total Power Exchange over time. I enjoy traditional gender roles and can provide for my girl. That does mean you should be willing to relocate in the future. I do prefer to take it slow while we're just getting to know each other, but I'm also not 20 anymore – I'd like to start moving forward once this should get serious. I'm so ready to settle down and spend my life with someone.

About me

I'm (ethnically) Dutch with dark hair and dark eyes, bearded, deep voice, about 5'7-5'8 tall and physically fit. I'm childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, have social/left-wing politics. I'm known as responsible, composed and dependable, and I'm experienced as a Dominant.

I'm passionate about art & storytelling, in film, literature, (indie) games. I like to paint, draw, sculpt with clay, write poetry & fiction, and enjoy visiting art museums. Other interests include weight lifting, boxing, going for walks, nature, cooking and enjoying good & healthy food, fashion, and the cosiness of huddling up around a board game (and beating your ass). Full-time employed and really passionate about my work. Some of my future goals are to build a large terrarium/vivarium, publish a book, run my own studio, reach my physical strength goals, and to build furniture for our home.

Looking for

A feminine, classy type, a real girly girl. She shares my love for books & art. Smart, but also smart enough to let me lead. Her ideal future consists of a cozy, quieter life.

Preferably shorter than me and of a healthy weight. Big weakness for long, dark hair. Not attracted to tattoos.

Emotional health is important to me. I don't scare away from tougher subjects or emotional baggage, but being able to take care of yourself is a must. Someone who talks when something's the matter. I can't be with a closed book.

BDSM

Main kinks/interests: domination, humiliation, shy girls that embarrass easily, spanking, impact play, roleplay, age play, fear play, consensual non-consent, free use, domestic servitude, high protocol, obedience training, total body ownership.

Limits: brats, age regressing to toddler behavior, involving others/sharing, switching, drugs, scat, permanent damage, dangerous edge play (e.g. hard choking; I'll only play-pretend these things).

Tell me some of your interests or future goals? You can message me here, or find me on FetLife (ProtectNPossess) or on Tumblr (protect-and-possess). If you read this far and you're interested, here's a secret photo of me. Can't wait to get to know you!