Good morning to r/bdsmpersonals! I'm 25M, live in southern Oregon, and am looking for a kinky partner. I'm no stranger to the space and have had a few kinky relationships IRL, so I'm looking ultimately for something in-person - but we can get to know each other online first. Distance doesn't really matter to me as kinky connections are valuable and fun, and I travel a lot already.

Who am I?

Like I said, I'm 25M, straight, with a stable, rapidly rising career in tech at a company I founded and a beach house that I own. I can travel to you or travel you to me basically anywhere - I'm very mobile in general. I'll share pics with someone I connect with but I'm 5'10", 135lbs so skinny/fit, white, with a pretty decent face (I like to think, and so I'm told). I live by the ocean and enjoy a wide range of hobbies like skiing, ham radios, and chilling with my cats; I love the outdoors, my garden, my technology, and writing as a creative pursuit.

I love the music of Chappell Roan, Mitski, Lana, classic rock, all kinds of pop from across the years, synthwave, indie, rap, little of everything. I listen to music pretty much all the time so I have all kinds of stuff on usually. My favorite philosopher is Ayn Rand and I don't really care much for other philosophers. I will almost assuredly try to show you 12 Monkeys, The Thing, Dark City, and Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind. My favorite books are Blood Meridian (in general Cormac McCarthy), Atlas Shrugged, a lot of stuff by Stephen King, etc.

What am I looking for?

I'm a bit chronically undersexed; I fly all over the country on the regular for my work, so things keep me busy. Generally I have an incredibly high sex drive, love to be sexually adventurous, and I also really appreciate how fun more vanilla things can be - kink isn't something I need all the time, but it is something I need in anything long-term, and something I enjoy enough to put serious effort into making connections happen for. In general I'm a romantic and ultimately I'd really prefer something that's leading towards a monogamous relationship, but am open to keeping things kink-focused as I'm in no rush. Monogamy is serious to me and something I want with someone who I find the right balance of everything with; but as said, I'm in no rush, and I really enjoy meeting new subs in the meantime.

In general, in anything committed, I want a relationship with someone who also finds physical intimacy to be a main shared interest of the relationship, as opposed to kind of a nice bonus. I like to hold hands or have you on my arm in public, I like to cuddle and catch a Miyazaki, I like little scalp massages (and neck massages as my neck is always soooo bad), I like casual touches throughout the day. I like someone who wants to flirtatiously message about times we've shared, I like someone who sends me photos of what they're up to. I kind of live a high life and I like someone who I can show off and who likes to be shown off. I'm really good at planning dates, I like to surprise my partners with flowers, etc.

My dick is 6.7 inches without anything too weird about it.

What am I into?

I'm honestly into all kinds of kinky things, and have done a lot in the space. I'm entirely a dom, and my preferences include a lot of things that generally surround something like being a mad scientist experimenting on someone in a lab. I like a lot of the medfet type of stuff, gynecological tables, speculums, a lot of the "tied up with breast milkers, a buttplug, and a bunch of vibrators", I like the whole "packaging" kink everyone over at r/packofilia are kinda pioneering, I love the r/hookeduphentai type machine bondage, honestly I'm just really into the space in general and enjoy being dominant in bed. Hucows and petplay are also huge for me.

Outside of my super kinky fantasies, I like gags, bondage, being tender and encouraging while someone is tied up. I can get into body writing and humiliation type stuff; it's kinda fun to see someone perform for me. In general I prefer to keep it tender even if extreme. Overall I'll really try anything, like I said I'm pretty sexually adventurous, I just prefer to be a dom. I'm open to the TPE 24/7 dynamic with the right person after some time getting to know each other. I have a piss kink in a couple ways we can chat about on the side, and I'll humor your blood kink if you have one.

If you're a booktok girlie, I'll wear any mask you like ;)

My only real hard limit is scat. But enemas are okay and kinda hot.

Always trying to put myself out there. Kinky people are rare and if my post speaks to you, let's see what's up.

TL;DR

Young, high-powered, romantic professional seeks play partner for cute D/s dynamics.