The title pretty much explains it. I'm not seeking something frivolous, temporary, or risky. No married or committed folks for threesomes or otherwise.

I'm seeking an organic build-up where we get to know each other, and slowly establish a foundation of trust before we delve into the kinkier side of the relationship. As inexperienced as I may be, I know "enough" about it to know what boundaries shouldn't be crossed, or how to spot illegitimate Doms. I want you to earn my submission, just as much as I will earn your guiding hand.

I am not seeking a 24/7 D/s relationship or one that demands a lot of the private time that I need for myself. I know this may be a deal-breaker for a lot of you, but I am not interested in being at someone's beck and call all hours of the day. I would prefer our D/s relationship to occur in sessions, with public dates outside to have ample amounts of flirting and easy foreplay. I like to keep it classy in public, and be a freak in the sheets, only for you. I would also prefer a Dom who is not clingy, also enjoys his private time, and is not involved with many (or ideally none) other subs. I like keeping things discreet and safe. As for me, I have only had one sexual partner and do not sleep around frivolously. I am commitment-oriented and loyal.

A little about me: I am a 5'3" East Asian cis woman with an interest in nerd culture (DnD, tabletop gaming, TCG, video games, anime, LoTR) and the arts. I also thoroughly enjoy cooking and writing in my spare time. My MBTI is INFP. My body type is average, with a bit of cushion. I am not thin and toned. I am not overweight or obese. I'm sitting comfortably in the middle of average and a little fluffy, so I would prefer someone who prefers "bigger" women or at least someone who can motivate me to work out with them! My kinks include anal, giving oral, praise, petting, softdom, sex toys, and spanking.

Ideally, you: An experienced or knowledgeable, inexperienced dom in his late 20s to 50s. Kind, empathetic, understanding. Not forceful. Respectful, courteous, chivalrous. Bonus points if you're also into nerdy/geeky stuff. Not overly attached/clingy. Any race. DDF.

Let's get to know each other. Tell me what you're all about.