Ok, so I am going to give this personals thing another shot.. Please do not waste my time or yours!!

⚠️PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU HAVE NOT READ MY ENTIRE POST⚠️PLEASE!!!

I'm new to the community, but have always been wanting to learn and live the lifestyle. I've never had a partner that would even try. I'm mostly dominant in my everyday life, but I don't like to be.. I want to be submissive and at heart I am submissive, I have never been presented with the opportunity.

I am open to learning and open-minded. I do have hard limits on what I absolutely will not do under any circumstances. I'm interested in finding a partner that could grow IRL. I'm not interested in online domination relationships. I am not interested in unsolicited 🍆 pix nor am I interested in starting something with someone that is 2 hours or more away from my location. I live in Central Illinois not far from Springfield. I need/ want something physical. However, I am not prepared for or willing to just jump right into anything! Again, I am new and want to take things slow.

I do not respond well to men who inbox me immediately demanding my submission and servitude. I am not seeking a 1950s relationship at this time, maybe that may change, but my ideal dynamic does not consist of me providing complete and utter attention to my dom especially if it does not consist with focusing on me! I am not interested in couples, or poly relationships. Trust is very important and building rapport is ideal to creating a great dynamic for me. The moment I catch a whiff off bull, I am out. I will no longer have my time wasted. If you are in a situtionship or going through some emotional issues, please do not reach out to me! I am not here to entertain you… PERIODT! While I am seeking a pleasure dom, I will not tolerate any disrespect of any form.

I prefer a male that is experienced, patient, willing to work with my flexibility, affectionate, and willing to teach me. I am also not interested in any man under the age of 40. Older gentlemen are very much welcome and encouraged!! ♥️😘