Do you fantasise about giving up control? Do you want to be trained to serve a Master?

I am a Dom, 40, with over 16 years of experience training subs and slaves. I currently live in Germany although I am from Scotland.

In a partner I prefer some degree of dark humour and wit; as a Scot, sarcasm is a natural part of my character. It would also be useful to share some of the same interests in cinema, music (mainly rock, grunge and metal), travel (love an historic city break) and sports, but this can be discussed in a DM.

My preference for a long term partner (sub/slave) is a women with a slim, athletic or normal figure between the ages of 18 and 37, ideally under 165cm, but height isn't really a concern for me. This is a guide, not a hard restriction, but I am not attracted to larger women who do not exercise. There is some wiggle room on the upper age limit for the right fit.

Smoking is not permitted.

In the beginning, I want to get to know someone online or in person if they are local to me. It is important that we mesh well. I want to find someone for a long term relationship, so there needs to be a bond that goes beyond Master and slave or Dom and sub. In short, we need to actually like each other and want to be in each other's company. We need to be a couple in private and in public, and mixed in there will be some challenging public play scenarios.

Once we have got to know each other, the plan would be to spend one long weekend or two weekends per month together, which will be a mix of dating and long D/s sessions. The girl should be a submissive who wants to be trained as a house slave in a free-use environment. It should be noted this is for my free use and the girl would not be shared with other men in any scenario. The girl does not have to be from my city, she will be accommodated by her Dom. Eventually, the girl would be expected to live with her Dom permanently.

The girl will be trained in body positions, obedience, patience and household tasks with total power exchange. RACK BDSM should be the expectation. Boundaries and limits can be discussed prior to service periods, although I would expect these to be removed over time if they will not cause permanent harm or injury. Disobedience will be corrected through disciplinary measures including but not exclusive to impact play, degradation and humiliation. More detail can be discussed in a private chat.

The girl will be educated in English and instructions will be given in that language.

The girl will be cared for by her Dom for the duration of the play sessions.

The girl will be expect to allow her body to be used for her Dom's entertainment. This may include being given to a Domme for use, or being used by her Master with another submissive.

I maintain a regular relationship with a switch (3 times a month), to whom I am her DaddyDom. She also enjoys playing the role of a Domme and we, together, are wanting to play with another submissive woman in Dom / sub / slave and Dom / Domme / slave dynamics during threesomes. She is poly and lives with a long term vanilla partner. I would expect my relationship with her to continue as long as I live in my current city, it is an exceptionally important relationship for me both in kink and personally. My needs are as such that I want a long term partner to be involved with romantically, and she cannot fulfil this role in my life.

I enjoy leadership and control, and trust turns me on. There is nothing more stimulating than to have a girl present her body and mind for submission. I take great pride in my ability to push and ride limits and whilst taking care of my sub.

While there is no desire for financial domination there would be an expectation that the girl would contribute to household costs if living permanently in her Dom's home. I am not a sugar daddy.

If this speaks to you, feel free to send me a DM or a message.

I am also interested with in chatting with subs, slaves and switches. I find motivations and the psychology behind submission fascinating.