Hey :) I'm a quiet alt geeky hipstery kinda guy. 35, 6'1, chunky, there's sfw pics in my history. Non monog. Service dom. Living in the inner west and happy to host. Love coffee, gaming, gigs and musicals, art galleries, and binging video essays. Always happy to have a nice quiet movie night or brunch in a park while we ramble about our current passion subjects lol

Kink wise I'm pretty open minded. Have a strong preference for something ongoing but open to discussing one off connections if there's something specific you'd like that I can provide.

My kinks mostly revolve around power dynamics, and ownership of pleasure. I like earning your trust and openness, and knowing I can be the safe space to indulge (or deny 👀) all your fantasies and kinks and needs in a way you rarely get. I crave being someones obsession, so feel free to simp for me. As a service dom my pleasure comes from knowing you're getting fulfilment from everything we're doing, even if what we're doing is breaking you down for my pleasure. And thanks to enjoying most things as long as my partner does, I'm kink friendly and comfortable with at least dirty talk or scene creation around any fantasy of yours. I really find myself drawn to the mental aspect of kinks most. Feelings and communication and exploration of our fantasies. Definitely enjoy feeling from you a sense of importance and value in what I provide to you and bring into your world, whatever that may be.

As an owner or a daddy I tend to be a little softer and more easy going despite my sadistic streak. I'm strict when it comes to meeting my expectations, but always willing to work with you and help you meet them. I like the guiding and nurturing side of it. Shaping you to be my image of your best self. I like seeing you eager to please and impress me, and I'm quick to snuff out any bratiness or rebellion.

The majority of my experience involves power exchange, ddlg, free use, ownership, trauma play, cnc, like I said I generally enjoy the more mental kinds of kinks, although I do have a fondness for some impact play and leaving marks.

My main limits are I'm not much of a sub myself, I don't appreciate constant brattiness especially if the brat can't handle being painfully punished, and I don't engage in any irl non con scenes straight away. While there's plenty I may not actively enjoy myself, I'll find fulfilment in indulging anything if it's something you enjoy.

As for what I want from you, there's not really many specifics. Looks wise I'm open to anything, it's the connection that matters for me. As long as you're thoughtful, communicative, and kind then I'm happy to explore what we can provide each other :) just please put at least a brief intro into your message.

Mental health aware. Body positive. Non-monogamous and have an F partner who's open to joining if you want to discuss that. However I prefer to have exclusivity when it comes to a more formal dynamic for instance if I have a pet or a little or a more structured sub then I don't like to have anyone else in my world with a similar dynamic. I find that works best for me both in what energy I'm able to give to them, and what I like to have in return from them.