'ello there

As my playfully irreverent username suggests, I'm interested in an intelligent, confident, submissive-leaning woman ready for an exciting and kinky friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship.

This connection would be about diving deep into our desires with enthusiastic consent and respect at its foundation. I'm here for a singular connection, not searching for a unicorn.

For me, 'FWB' is all about enjoying enjoying our time without the pressure of settling down or building a life together. It’s a chance for us to fully enjoy each other’s company in the present moment.

About Me: I am a Black DC professional who loves books, drawing, and (reluctantly) creative writing. I grew up on two continents. I skipped a grade. My marriage is open so that I can explore my dominant side. I enjoy mini-golf, cooking, awful puns, rooftop pool lounging, and the mountains more than the beach. I love Hawaiian pizza. I am 5'7" tall (or 172 cm for the metrically inclined height supremacist).

I believe in open and honest communication. I believe in prioritizing your pleasure, and I am committed to safe and consensual kink.

You: You're a woman who values clear communication in your life and in kink. You seek a physical closeness in a mutually enriching connection. If you're a professional, a wanderer, or a creative, we'll likely click, regardless of whether you're new to ENM, polyamory, or kink. I look forward to discussing our boundaries and hard limits.

Preferences: I appreciate substance over stereotypes. Great oral hygiene and avoiding tobacco. In my experience, liberal, open-minded values lead to more interesting conversations and better connections. I am looking for someone with emotional bandwidth for a connection; so if you only need a warm dick I am probably not for you..

Also! I chief of staff/butle for two cats (for those with allergies).

Interested?: Share what captivates you, and let's explore a connection. If we hit it off, maybe meet for a drink. I value a genuine connection without the commitment pressures. Playful moments await us.

Looking forward to hearing from you!