What I'm looking for: A LTR with a lovingly sadistic Daddy Dom who’ll treat me like both the most precious pretty princess and the naughtiest, most pathetic slut (because I am, duh). Someone equally happy cuddling on the couch watching murder docs or Disney movies as they are taking me to a play party to tie me up, beat me black and blue, and fuck me in front of an audience like a filthy little whore (but like, YOUR filthy little whore, feel me?). 

Who I am: submissive bottom into DDlg, rough sex/roughness, impact and pain play, rope bondage, light emotional sadism (including humiliation/degradation, objectification), and like...a whole lot of other things. Limits include scat, piss, age play (I enjoy the DDlg vibe/dynamic but I'm not a little), ABDL. Here are a couple pics of myself because I figure let's just get that bit out of the way now, yeah? https://imgur.com/a/S0OC7VZ Happy to exchange face pics if we hit it off.

Pros of dating me:

• I have a wickedly sharp wit with a sardonic sense of humor that's equal parts goofy and dark
• Generally very agreeable and chill/laidback
• Highly empathetic, kind, giving, and emotionally intelligent with top-notch communication skills
• Generally have my shit together; in therapy to actively work on the shit I *don’t* have together
• I make a fantastic plus one; I'm a snazzy dresser and a deft conversationalist with a knack for putting people at ease
• In short: I’m smart af, funny af and a goddamn delight to be around (and anyone who says otherwise can eat a dick ;P)

(Possible) cons of dating me:

• Secretly an incorrigible gossip and definitely perhaps terribly a tad petty from time to time
• Fiercely independent with a stubborn streak a mile or two wide
• Weird and inconvenient work schedule (late nights and weekends mostly)
• Don’t have a car/don't drive
• Curvy, plus-sized, BBW - whatever euphemism for fat you wanna choose, I'm it (pls refer to pics) so if that's not your jam, you'll want to move along.

Who you are: An LA/SoCal resident (preferably northeast LA) roughly in the 30-55 age range with big Daddy vibes. Intelligent, considerate, emotionally intelligent/mature, empathetic, independent, politically left, funny and not afraid to be a little (or a lot) goofy. A good conversationalist is important, outgoing and personable would also be cool. Please be queer-friendly (I am bi), non-monagamous (or open to non-monagamy), and child-free (or at least, done having children; ok if you already have your own, I just have no interest in having/raising kids myself). Prefer someone who is active in the LA kink community or is willing to be. Bonus points if you like live theater/musicals and cats, and also Cats (the musical).

If you're looking for the same things and think we'd hit it off, message me with a little about yourself and (preferably) a pic or two. Kthx!