For me, Reddit is my go-to for finding like-minded people who share similar interests. I’m not big on kink-focused social media outside of spaces like this, which is why I’m here.

A little about me: I’m 32, 6 feet tall, with dirty blonde hair, fit, and confident in both my personal and professional life. I’m the friendly, sharp-witted guy who knows himself well and takes pride in truly understanding others. I thrive in maintaining healthy dynamics and have a strong focus on family and social connections. I love reading, traveling (still working on learning a new language), and I have a close group of friends. Oh, and I’m a proud baker—three sourdough loaves and counting.

What I’m looking for: You’re in your 20s or 30s, ambitious, and ready to build a fulfilling life with an experienced Dom. You love new experiences, both inside and outside of the bedroom, and you appreciate the importance of clear communication. You’re fit, passionate about your hobbies, and enjoy deep conversations. You’re not shy about your submissive side but are waiting for the right person—someone who offers more than just physical connection, but a deep psychological bond.

When it comes to kink, I’m all about power dynamics and control. I want to understand you deeply and use that understanding to amplify your desires, making you crave the moments you submit. I’m looking for someone who can join me at social events or family gatherings, but who behind closed doors is eager to embrace her submissive side. Expect to find yourself constantly wanting more.

What I offer is to shape you into a devoted, obedient submissive—collared and owned. This isn’t just about sex. It’s about control in all aspects of life, from small acts of etiquette to more explicit tasks, like wearing a plug when you go out. I’m after control, but also a meaningful, intimate connection that runs deep.

I’ve got six years of experience in D/s dynamics, from rules and etiquette to the highs and lows of obsession, passion, and unforgettable intimacy. While kink isn’t the main focus of my life—family, friends, and creativity are—it’s something I value and wouldn’t want to live without.

I lean toward a caring but firm Daddy Dom role. I enjoy pain play, free use, and tasteful humiliation. While I find femininity alluring, I don’t let it define the entire dynamic. Outside the bedroom, I prefer to lead in a supportive, nurturing way.

I’m looking for something real, in person, with the potential for growth and longevity. If any of this speaks to you, feel free to reach out.