Disclaimer:
I am a believer of honesty to transparency so just so yall know I have been an observer and learner of bdsm for quite some time, and begun to go to interact with my local community but never played however i am ready to and try to experience it. ( also not the most experienced in the sex department)
You:
-someone who has clear goals in life, doesn't matter if it's focused around money, hobbies, a skill set, health, or whatever, just have aspirations you wish achieve (it can even be about finding what you wish to do) - you communicate your thoughts, desires and needs - You know if a dynamic begins, you have the power to give and withdraw your consent anytime and anywhere and know that you are safe to always do so - you know that your submission is always your choice if you choose to give - you are transparent and honest - you are opened minded - Race, height, weight doesn't matter (but u are height weight proportionate, aka you don't need to be fit) - age 20-32 (will not go any lower, open to go a bit higher)
Me:
I'm a muscular guy (body height weight proportionate) who competed in sports throughout high school and for some of college, I'm currently doing boxing and jiu-jitsu for fun. While I am muscular I do not have a 6 pack, after graduating college I took a break from fittness and developed a muscular dad bod (plan to get my 6 pack back and im on a good pace to get it back in about 6-8 months)
I am also black, clean shaven with a small beard and mustache
Always been told by those around me that I am handsome but that's for you judge
Likes (non kink):
I love martial arts, reading, anime, video games, football, swimming and watching bad movies.
Located/travel:
I am located on the east coast however I make a decent about of money giving me the ability to travel somewhat frequently if things ever get to that point
Kink me:
we can talk specifics in dm whether its about power exhanges, kinks you are into and what we are both looking for as i am quite adventurous and open minded and will try most things at least once but these are things I won't budge on
- age play
- Scat
- blood -permanent damage
Everything else is open to discussion
FYI: - my goal is to eventually have an in person dynamic to some extent as I am looking for something ltr however I am fine if this stay mainly online - open to picture swapping SFW of course only if you are comfortable and won't mention it again until you bring it up - i will be always working from your comfort so I will be lightly flirtatious, and keep things mostly pg (unless we are talking about what we like kink wise) so don't expect me to anything but a golden retriever unless you give me the ok to do so
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