For me, Reddit is a way to connect with like-minded people. I’m not really into kink-social media outside of spaces like this, which is why I’m here.

About me: I’m 31, 6 ft, with dirty blonde hair, fit, driven, and confident in both my career and personal life. I’m the affable, silver-tongued weirdo who knows himself well and prides himself on understanding others. I thrive in managing healthy dynamics and am very family-oriented and social. I love to read, travel (though I’ve yet to pick up another language), and I’ve got a close-knit group of friends. Oh, and I’m a proud father to three loaves of sourdough and counting.

What I’m looking for: You’re a woman in your 20s or 30s, ambitious and ready to build a fulfilling life alongside an experienced Dom. You’re adventurous, love trying new things both in and out of the bedroom, and understand the value of good communication. You’re fit, passionate about your hobbies, and enjoy late-night conversations. You’re not ashamed of your submissive side, but you won’t kneel easily—you’re waiting for the right partner, someone who can offer more than just sex but deep, psychological connection.

Kink-wise, I’m into power dynamics and control. I want to truly understand you and use that understanding to exploit your desires, making you crave the moments you submit. A good girl who can join me with friends at the pub or meet my family, yet behind closed doors, is eager and submissive. Expect to find yourself dripping often.

What I offer is to mold you into an obedient submissive—collared and owned. Sometimes this will be sexual, sometimes it won’t. From small acts of etiquette to more explicit tasks like wearing a plug before leaving the house, I’m after control and a deep, intimate connection that goes beyond the surface.

I have six years of experience in full-blown D/s dynamics, including rules, etiquette, and the ups and downs of obsession, romance, mind-blowing sex, and everything in between. Kink isn’t the centerpiece of my life—that spot belongs to family, friends, passion, and art—but it’s something I’d never want to live without.

I lean into the role of a caring but demanding Daddy. I enjoy pain play, free use, and tasteful humiliation. I find femininity attractive but don’t let it define us. Outside the bedroom, I like being in control but in a soft and nurturing way.

I’m looking for something real, IRL, with longevity and growth. If any of this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to message me.