Hello, I'm a 31 year old male from New Zealand. 177cm, 78kg (5'8 and 171lb for Americans lol)
What I'm looking for. I'm looking for a long-term partner who gets off on being controlled and being handed out very SUBTLE psychological abuse and manipulation. I would like the overt dynamic to be very praise-based and positive. A sub Who likes to chat about other things, send each other dirty reddit posts and pics when warranted. Someone that is confident in their feminity and wanting someone to relinquish control to.
Me as a partner: very devoted, adoring, and dominant (even in vanilla aspects of our relationship). I understand that the dynamic is both give and take so I live to please and will go out of my way to make my partner happy and surprise them. I'm extremely affectionate, compassionate, and loving. My main love languages are quality time and acts of service.
Ideally, you would like to wake up to orders and instructions, be micromanaged and examined, slapped and spit on, but you would also enjoy snuggling on the couch and watch tv, or discussing silly ideas such as why people thought the moon was ever made of cheese.
The Fun Stuff: My broad kinks include: - 24/7 TPE - Wardrobe control - Bathroom control - Meal/Exercise control - Orgasm control - Impact - Hairpulling - Spitting - Ropes/Restraints - collars/gags - Praise - Humiliation/Degradation - Anal/Anal training
Thanks for taking the time to read through this all. If this interests you, reach out!
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