Hello 👋 I feel like I should start this by saying I am looking for a partner, relationship in and out of the bedroom, monogamy, looking for my life long dom to please and settle down with, don't mind a little distance, maybe hour or two but would prefer local as I don't drive nor can I host as easily. If I am being real honest, which I always am, I am a bit exhausted from long distance, it's hard and not nearly enough cuddles, if we don't vibe over text and pics it probably won't go anywhere, I'm also bipolar, if that's not your cup of tea thank you for stopping by.

I suppose I should talk about myself a bit, let's get the vanilla out of the way. I should probably say a warning that I'm loud and almost always laughing.

I'm laid back, I like lazy days as much as I like adventure, sweet but sassy, maybe a bit too honest, okay, fine, definitely too honest. I respect people's spaces but also looking for my dom that enjoys how physically clingy I am 🤭, very touchy person over here, crazy for cuddles, live for touch, open minded, high sexual appetite. If you don't want an honest answer don't ask, in return I'm an open book and won't lie.

Most of my days is split between, work, art, and games, would adore someone who doesn't mind stay in days but is also down for dragging me out of the house, gotta keep a balance 🤭 I've been craving going out on little adventures, hikes, swimming, exploring town, learning a new hobby would be fun too 🤔

I'm trying to be more active, get in better shape, yes I am fat, fluffy, buffet bandit, however you wanna phrase it, my goal is healthy and food positive not skinny, if you want short and skinny I'm not for you, while short even when I was in shape I still wasn't considered skinny, I have accepted my fate of being a ball of fluff made of chaos and giggles.

Looking for my life partner to connect with and navigate through this very interesting world we live in 😹 which looks a bit like a Dom and partner who is patient, caring, open to helping me explore and shape me as a sub, humor is much appreciated, a firm hand is loved. I haven't really had a dom before, only gotten a little taste with friends, my personality is a bit different in the bedroom vs out, wouldn't mind trying a 24/7 lifestyle.

Fairly new to discovering my kinks and open to explore yours, I don't like being in control, sub makes that fairly obvious but I don't have any wants to be switch 🤭 decisions are hard as I tend to overthink, I have a big praise kink, degradation praises are a vibe too, big fan of free use and possibly cnc. I've been told I'm a little but I haven't really explored that. I enjoy some manhandling and possibly rough play, not so much choking but enjoy being pinned down and held by the throat, more primal, and very interested in bondage but I haven't gotten to try it, so much I haven't gotten to try really. Not into feces, urine, blood play, too heavy into pain type is not my vibe but light pain is okay.

I'm open to different body types, don't care about ethnicity, and I'm not obsessed with your height 🤭 I may like a guy to be taller but in my defense I'm 5’2 so it's really not hard 😹 I'm not looking for perfect, isn't a thing, but you should be able to communicate. I try hard to keep an open mind with age but I have young parents so above 40 is a bit strange for my brain admittedly.

If you have sent a DM and I haven't responded there is a good chance you weren't local, looking for a hookup, or said something that I already said no to 😅 not really looking for states away, so send me something interesting, what did you like about the post? Send a pic, introduce yourself, I want to get to know you a bit before meeting so if talking is like pulling teeth I'll lose interest, I'm a lot more comfortable and open during meetups after I have chatted a bit so, feel free to DM if interested, I work graveyard so my replies might come at weird times or slow here and there just to warn you, I also tend to focus on one person at a time, I'm not a mass dater, I only have so much attention span 😹