Hi there!

I'm a 34-year old cis-man from the Leicestershire area. 6'2" tall, blonde, long-haired (like down-to-my-ass-long), beard, glasses, playfully described as an “office worker viking”. I consider myself pansexual, having accepted that I can feel attraction towards individuals beyond those who were AFAB. It’s still the case that I’m drawn more towards those who present as femme, and traditionally masculine traits like beards and deep voices don’t do anything for me, but I try to keep an open mind.

On the subject of an open mind, as mentioned in the title, I’m non-monogamous, and happily living with my partner, and metamour. We’re kitchen-table poly and all get along great, but I’m aware that our circumstances of cohabiting are rare in the poly community, and I’m not trying to actively recruit people into this situation. Any engagement between metas in any ENM situation should be at their discretion and comfort levels.

With that disclaimer out of the way, little more about me. I can seem quiet and contemplative at first, but that’s largely me masking my overwhelming nerdiness and social anxieties (yeah, highly likely neurospicy, but never diagnosed 😅), but if you fancy animated discussions on topics of boardgames, DnD, anime, rock and metal music, sci-fi and fantasy, cute animals, or just meme shitposts it becomes much harder to shut me up. Not just an indoorsy person though, I enjoy hiking and camping trips, and I’ve been known to throw myself down a snowy mountain with skis on my feet…

Kinkwise, I’m a switch, and flexible in my interests. I’ve subbed enough to comfortably say I enjoy it, and know what I like about it, but I also have an unfulfilled dominant side I’d like to explore, so I'm hoping to get to know other switchy or sub-leaning folk. I appreciate the more relaxed, casual - and even silly - approach to BDSM, and regardless of my role, I enjoy being a pleasure-giver. Nothing's sexier than safety, sanity and consent when it comes to kink.

Personal connection is important to me. I wouldn't consider being intimate with someone unless I get along with them as a person, and I consider time spent having fun together outside of the bedroom as incredibly valuable in any relationship.

So, if any of this has caught your interest, talk to me about your hobbies. I love hearing what people are passionate about!

Cheers!