I’m 5’8”, unapologetically plus sized alt baddie looking for someone who can match my freak. I haven’t had much luck finding compatible play partners, but I have had some great short-term experiences that came from Reddit - so I’m trying here again. 

What I’m looking for
A local kinkster who is dom-leaning, with preferably sadistic tendencies. Affectionate cruelty <3 “I know it hurts, take it for daddy” 

Thick, nerdy dads with tattoos are my weakness. 

I like my men obsessed. I wanna feel like the most important thing when we’re spending time together. When I send a nude, I want you drooling and simping. It’s part of the fun ;) 

Must be involved in the local kink community, or at least open to attending munches and/or events. They don’t have to be your thing, but involvement in kinky society and education is important to me. 

I’m polyamorous and currently I have one long-term partner who is not involved in my BDSM exploration, but is incredibly supportive. I’m also actively dating, though I’ve slowed down a lot recently due to not having luck with what I’m looking for. 

SFW interests: 
Sci-fi and fantasy - books, games, shows, and movies 
Video games - I’ve got like 100 steam games and even more physical games. I own every console from Atari to last-gen Xbox and PS. 
Live music and concerts - I’m always down for a show. Really into posthardcore metal and EDM right now 
Experiences and stories - I love exploring new places and meeting new people. I’m always down for an adventure
Crafty - painting, crochet, drawing, coloring, DIY, decorating

Kinky interests: 
Subby as all hell, degradation, praise, light humiliation, heavy impact play, sensory play, bondage, fisting, squirting, large insertions, orgasm control and forced orgasms, inferiority complex, objectification, collars/leashes/leads, anal training, triple penetration, CNC, and curious about a lot more. I have some intense kinks I haven’t explored yet because I haven’t built the trust necessary to engage in them. Hard limits: rimming, needles, scat, urine. 

Caveats 
Meeting strangers is scary. I’d like to chat for a while online before moving to in-person. One for safety/comfy reasons, two because I value my time and assume you do yours as well. No sense in meeting up if there isn’t a connection. 

I don’t host, so preferably you’d host. With the right connection, we could discuss hotel options down the line. 

Sexual compatibility is incredibly important to me. However, you have to be able to have a semi-normal conversation about sexual preferences without it becoming inherently sexual. There will be plenty of time for that ;) 

Please send a SFW selfie along with your introduction so I can see if there is a physical attraction there. I have a lot of pictures on my profile for you to see if I’m your type!