Let’s cut straight to the chase in the first paragraph since flowery words don’t do well here (although if that is your thing please see my other post for a more detailed picture) - I’m looking for a Daddy. (Yes, I do mean 30 only.) Well, someone I can call Daddy, who is willing to meet me where I’m at in this world and guide me with patience and empathy.

It’s important to note the basics of being a Daddy are of course a crucial component: a good role model, a leader, someone who offers guidance, support, safety, patience, compassion, and a dash of well-timed shame and manipulation.

Now don’t go jumping to cliche conclusions. This role is nuanced and much deeper than what most see on the surface level and truly isn’t for the faint of heart or easily upset.

While I’m not new to the BDSM world, I have never found the right partner for me to fully immerse and let go with - I’m determined to find you.

And to be totally transparent: I’m also scared to find you. I am insecure as a submissive and find myself easily overwhelmed at times. I’m terrified to fully embrace this side of myself but I find myself even more terrified of a reality in which life never experienced a true Daddy.

I’m looking for someone I can bond with over time. Someone who appreciates a slow burn. Someone who prioritizes taking his time.

Daddy can only be earned by the man who evokes its meaning. A sudden presence and force that’s hard to question and easy to dissolve into.

Please be passionate about creating our own unique world together. Please be efficient with communication and conversation. (I lean towards quiet/introvert naturally so someone who can lead the convo/really spark a good one gets me out of my shell best). I am very particular about how we interact and I will not settle for just anyone in my inbox. How you approach me, carry yourself, and converse with me is highly important.

The safer you make me feel… the more of me you’ll get!

Kinks: sapiosexuality, orgasm control and denial, TPE, free use, tasks, manipulation, degradation/humiliation, psychological bdsm, teasing, misogyny, mind games, power dynamics, ddlg, age gaps, emotional masochism, grooming, gender roles

Limits: blood, scat, animals, heavy abuse