Hi!! This is going to be a long post but hopefully it gives you an insight into me and what experiences we could enjoy. After all, it’s important to put the effort in up front.

TL;DR: I'm a reasonably experienced Dom and I like to think passionate, fun, caring and kinky Scotsman who is looking for someone new to explore some kinks with, whether purely online or eventually in person. You well if you are someone who enjoys pushing some boundaries, enjoys sharing new experiences, is kinky (or wants to explore kink) and someone who is motivated then I’d love to hear from you.

About me AKA "Who am I?"

Physically - I'm 30, white, dark brown hair, green eyes, active/athletic (slim) (5'11/~155 lbs), non-smoker. Yes, I’m Scottish so I do have an accent but I’ll let you be the judge of whether it’s attractive?…

Personality - I’m driven, caring, a bit cheeky and just the right amount of deviancy.

I love learning about people, what they are passionate about and what they want to achieve in life so I like to think easy to talk to and open-minded. Personally, I think I also can give great advice on a variety of situations and equally also accept such advice.

Interests - Part homebody, part social butterfly. I love nothing more than meeting friends and enjoying some time together whether that’s playing sports or chilling at the pub. Equally, I love to chill at home and just relax, take a moment to just do very little.

My interests vary dramatically from playing sports to keeping abreast of current affairs. I’m not a huge TV/film fan, mostly because I have no idea what to actually watch and spend most time just scrolling through Netflix, like what do you pick? I enjoy games whether that’s your classic board game or on the PC.

I love cooking, there is something so rewarding about trying new recipes and cuisines. I particularly enjoy Asian and Italian dishes, trying to make them as authentic as possible which can be challenging in Scotland.

I would love to learn a new language one day but currently I can only speak English well some might even suggest with a Scottish accent I can’t do that…

Daily life - I'm goal-oriented and push myself and others to aspire to try and do new things, take that leap. I have a career that I'm passionate about and this is as much part of my life and probably personality.

Who and what I'm looking for?

Ah the NSFW bit, eventually!

I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also is ready to relinquish control in the right hands, some of the time.

Someone who is ready to be challenged (whether sexually or personally).

Whether this remains a purely online thing or develops into something more in person, I’m open to this, I’ve had both experiences in the past and they are equally as rewarding for different reasons.

Then if some of that interests you then, please keep reading.

Location - Scotland, UK. I occasionally travel a bit with work but generally within the UK.

To be clear, I’m open to any location and not just UK based. I’ve had experiences both locally and all around the world, both have been rewarding and fun.

My Kinks

I like to think that I’m very open minded so I’m not going to close the door on anything in particular but I’ll share a few limits further down.

I enjoy taking the lead and control, whether in person or online. Online, I’m someone who enjoys setting some challenges/tasks obviously once we know each other better and always making sure you’re comfortable.

For those that are reading and are maybe newer to this then I’ve shown a few people into the world of kinky sex whether that’s by letting them discover how much they enjoy having a pretty (in my humble opinion) cock down their throat for longer and longer. Or perhaps discovering how much fun some anal play can be, or discovering that being stretched makes them cum harder than they thought was possible or that squirting is only a matter of practice. That’s just a few little situations but let me be absolutely clear, nothing is a must. If there are things you don’t enjoy then that’s fine by me.

I enjoy setting some fun tasks/challenges to keep things exciting and interesting.

In terms of general kinks then: Rough sex, toys, restraints, deepthroating, anal, lingerie, cum play, public play, tasks and all those kind of things get me excited.

I’ll never push you to try something that you don’t want to, I’ll only push you to explore your boundaries that you’re comfortable exploring. Equally if you want to explore pushing mine then, I’m open to that too and everything that entails.

limits I’ll say the typical things like Scat, diapers etc…

Experience I’m not going to say that you need to be experienced in BDSM, maybe you are or maybe not; I’ve experienced both and I think they are both fun. If you’re open minded then I think we’d have a good time.

Your Status I know everyone can have varying opinions on this topic but I’m not going to say you must be this or that. This is your choice and you can make that consciously.

How to respond If you’ve read all of this then wow that was some essay. I appreciate that messaging on Reddit can feel like such a chore but I really do appreciate any effort you make in messaging me so if you chose to then I’ll make sure I take the time you reply. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this post or your own experiences/what you’re looking for. Please share some details about you like age etc… and yeah hope to speak soon.