I see a lot of posts on here about being used, controlled, restricted, etc. I realize that there are a lot of people who crave that, but I’m not one of those people.
While I do see myself as a Dom (or rather a switch, but prefer submissive partners), I’ve always been attracted to a more gentle style of play. I enjoy things like orgasm control, sensory play, and love all aspects of touch and instruction.
For me, having a partner who truly craves my arms around her and the comfort that provides is what I really enjoy.
As for the non-kink aspects of who I am. I am a well established guy who lives a life where I enjoy exploring the interesting or unique things in life. I love simple things like a good night in cuddling on the couch, going thrifting, spending time with my dog. I’m a father who has my tween about half of the time. While she will always be my top priority, I do have a lot of time to myself that I would love to spend with a partner I can truly connect with.
I like having regular contact. Physical touch and quality time are my primary love languages, so I appreciate someone who shares that.
I’m ultimately seeking a romantic partner for a long term relationship that is monogamous.
While I am open to an online dynamic with the right person, I am not someone who can see myself being involved in a long distance relationship long term, as I really need that in person connection to feel as though I’m fully engaged.
I’d like to hear more about you. Your interests, what you’re seeking, and who you are as a person.
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