I am looking for a life partner who is my lifestyle TPE sub/slave.

A bit about me:

1. Vanilla me -- highly involved in volunteering for a non-profit that runs a queer comic con, long-time fanfic writer, musical lover, dog and rabbit mom.

I'm Jewish, emphasis on the Jew, not the ish. I keep Kosher in my house and Kosher-style outside of it, I'm heavily involved in my shul, I don't celebrate Christmas, I DO celebrate a bunch of holidays most people have never heard of. I'm also an atheist. It's not a religious thing. It's a cultural, communal, and traditional thing.

I vote. In pretty much every election, even stuff that arguably doesn't really affect me, like schoolboard stuff.

I don't have kids, and at this point, I'm not looking to have any. I would be open to someone who has older kids, e.g., 14 , but if you're looking for someone to have a family with: not the right match.

Physically, I'm roughly 5'1", about 120lbs, average body type, 32DD/E, brown hair, blue eyes, Ashkenazi.

1. I'm monogamous. I've tried other approaches, and I recognize they are great for others, I'm a one-to-one woman.

2. Kink me. I'm a TPE lifestyle dom. (I don't use the term domme, despite being femme, sub isn't gendered, I see zero reason why dom should be.) I'm also sadistic, but if you're into receiving pain, we're not the right match. The best term for the kind of sadist I am that I've ever seen is being into consensual suffering. That is, if you're into suffering for my pleasure, then we're the right fit.

Preferred age limit is 30 - 55.

Physically, I tend to prefer femmes, but I'm flexible on that.

1. My known limits: cg/lg, race play, face slapping, being penetrated by anything other than a tongue, giving oral, scat, vomit, asphyxiation, feet (soft), rope (soft), fire, public play (outside of kink spaces), penises, men.

If this is you, chat me up. Ftr, I require verification, because I'm not an idiot.