Hi there! I'm 22, Christian, virgin and I have almost no experience in BDSM, although I know enough to want this as a lifestyle. Physically I'm 5'4, about 130lbs, brown hair, brown eyes, tanned skin.
A few things about me: I have mostly a Phlegmatic temperament so I'm submisive in nature and I want somebody to guide/lead me. I like to express love in forms of gifts and physical touch and some of my hobbies include music, and learning languages (as you can tell, English is not my first!) Future plans would include working mostly around the house and taking care of kids/husband. Of course, this would depend on our joint incomes so it's not a deal-breaker in case we can't have that lifestyle right away! I was born in South America and currently live here. I work from home and I'm open to relocate. As you can tell, I'm Christian and Christianity is at the center of my life. I want to find someone who shares the same values and values Christ as much as I do, if not more.
What I'm looking for: a man who is also a Christian, who wants take traditional roles in a relationship but also has an interest in BDSM. Perhaps this is not the right place, but I'm looking for somebody to share life with, a husband. It is a deal-breaker for me to wait until marriage to have sex so I don't mind if you've had your experiences before, I want to wait. It would be ideal if you already have some experience with previous subs but that is not required. Being a Christian is also a deal-breaker for me. Physically, it would be better if we both find each other attractive, I'm willing to share pictures and you should do the same! I would prefer a man who's taller than me and within the range of 24-32 years old.
We can further discuss kinks and what we both would be interested in. A lot of things sound nice to me, like pain in general, orgasm control, TPE and even CNC! Some of my limits would be: public play, bathroom stuff, anything permanent, threesomes or any play that could involve a person outside of the dynamic (and of course!) illegal stuff, or anything involving minors and animals.
I know this sounds quite boring because a lot of people want to do dirty talk right away and this is probably not the best place to find somebody to date, but I'm taking my chances! I want somebody who's serious about life and wants to settle down, I don't want to be playing around! Also, it would be awesome if any NSFW pictures weren't asked for (we can still do video calls though to talk, not a problem!) and we could mostly talk about ourselves rather than only talk about a dynamic. We both have hobbies, and we can talk about life in general!
If you like what you just read, send me a message so we can start talking! And if you didn't like it for some reason, that's totally fine, good luck in finding what you're looking for!
God bless!
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