I’ve always been interested in the psychology of a Dom/sub dynamic.

I have an interest in the idea of using BDSM as a cathartic release and to help the sub become a better version of herself. I’d want to use various scenes and control to teach you to figure out and fix your issues.

Let’s say you don’t like yourself, I’d put you into situation that seem impossible to do/get out of- but aren’t actually. You’d struggle to do it till you say something like, “I can’t do this.”

I’d push you to do it with spankings and slaps and make you say out loud, “I can and will do this. Thank you for believe in me Sir.” Then, when you figure it out, I’ll praise the hell out of you and make you journal about the experience.

I’m no therapist, I don’t have a degree in psychology- I just have interest and have been told I can “see” people well. I’d also suggest, you have a therapist still.

As for my wife? Well, she’s on the sub side but not my sub. We’re closer to equal ground. She is well aware and open to having a sub around.

I’m have a sadistic streak, both physical and mental. I also have a praise kink, I like to praise and help too. While I want the type of scene I described above, I also want a more traditional dynamic. I can be very strict while you are being trained, and easy going when you are. I want to be friends as much as I want to be your Dom. We can talk about specific kinks, if you’re interested.

You should like the psychology of it all too, want a connection, be a masochist and service oriented. We would talk deeper about all of this, in a convo.

I’d love to get to know you some before hand so we can do this properly. Not in a rush to get into D/s immediately.

For making it this far…here’s extra info, we look like we are in our 30s as we tend to take care of ourselves.

If you’re eyebrows raised in curiosity, perhaps you should say hi.