I'm a 37 year old female from Alabama near Tennessee and Mississippi. I am a submissive, a spanko, and a little. I am 5'1" and weigh 342 pounds as of my last physical. My worth is founded on much more than a number on a scale or my dress size, so please do not waste my time or yours if you have an issue with fat women. If BBW is your kink, that's great, but I'm not a fetish. I've been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for 15 years. I am in an open relationship. I am seeking a non-sexual discipline dynamic either IRL or online. My "ideal" Dominant is stern with Daddy tendencies; a nice mix of playful and firm; clear and precise about expectations, and equally clear about consequences; compassionate, understanding, and forgiving, but unwaveringly steadfast.

At my core is a yearning for structure, accountability, and discipline. I crave accountability and discipline like air. I crave the apprehensive, tummy-flipping, heart-pounding, throat-tightening, spine-tingling, butt-clenching, breathless feeling that takes over when someone starts scolding me as much as I crave the ritual of being spanked and the feeling of sitting on a sore ass for days or submitting to another unpleasant form of discipline. I long for someone else to take charge and remind me I am not in control. My ideal dynamic is based on mutual respect, keeps our roles firmly in place, and does not allow me much wiggle room with the boundaries. I am not a masochist and I do not get off on pain, so I can honestly say that I DO NOT enjoy spankings. That doesn't mean I don't need them, or even want them sometimes. It's a strange dichotomy, wanting something I dislike so much.

I am generally eager to please. I delight in being a good girl. That being said, when it appropriate to do so, I like being a bit 'bratty'. I enjoy being playful and testing the limits with others who enjoy brat-taming. I do not enjoy being obnoxiously bratty, outright disrespectful, or defiant. I hate being in trouble just as much as I love someone holding me accountable.

I believe strongly in open, honest communication and respecting limits. I also firmly believe everyone is entitled to be treated with courtesy, compassion, and respect and to have their boundaries observed.

Some areas in which I believe I could benefit from accountability include: punctuality, excessive spending, hydration, diet & exercise, sleep regulation, and more! If any of this piqued your interest, feel free to reach out to me.

TLDR?: 37y/o BBW sub/little seeks non-sexual discipline dynamic with Disciplinarian/Dominant/Daddy Dom.