Hiii!

I'm looking for a soft or pleasure Dominant who will NOT degrade or otherwise insult me. I am not into rules and punishments. I am NOT looking for an "open" relationship and would be looking for something monogamous.  I love being praised, and I'm a slight masochist - such as impact play and clamps. I have more limits than kinks and am looking for someone who is respectful and caring. We can discuss my kinks in more detail should you choose to message me. I have a very large toy collection. Aftercare is a must, and if you don't provide this, don't even bother messaging me as you're an abuser and not a "Dom." I’m not into DDLG, but I do tend to sometimes get along with Doms who call themselves “D@ddy Doms,” so long as that title isn’t being used. 

Some of my HARD LIMITS include degradation, rules, being truly punished (funishments don't count!), polygamy, TPE, and CNC. I have many more limits than this.

I enjoy phone conversations and I reply quickly. Unless you're otherwise occupied, I would expect the same from you. I DO NOT send nudes under any circumstance, but I will be open to sending some SFW pictures as time goes on once I trust you. Appearances wise, I'm Caucasian, 5'4, fair-skinned, have long wavy red hair and green eyes. Ideally, I'm looking for a relationship that lasts, but I'm not looking to jump into anything or be rushed. I want to get to know you both inside and outside of the bedroom.

As for hobbies, I love reading, swimming, artsy stuff, sewing, adult coloring, and many more. I love Taylor Swift and some country music, as well as some other artists too. I am very feminine. I'm compassionate to a point, but I'm not someone who can be walked on. I am a grammar Nazi and if your grammar is poor, especially if English is your first language, I will become very rightfully annoyed. Politically, I am not an extremist in either direction, but I am slightly right-leaning and don’t vibe well with communists/socialists.

If you've gotten this far and are still interested, send me a message with your ASL, what you're looking for, a description of your appearance and some fun things about you!

I am looking for someone pretty close to my age, preferably between the ages of 25-32. I'd also prefer someone from the US in case we click and also for time zone purposes.