Hi, I’m a 33f submissive from the Toledo area. I’m okay with getting to know each other a bit online (and expect to!) but I don’t like to dive into the deep end until I am confident that you are who you say you are. That being said, this ad will remain up until I have met someone, and more than just online.

Now that that’s out of the way, hello! I am seeking a male Dom for either a fwb type arrangement, or a (potentially) longterm relationship. No judgement, but I’m not into poly arrangements, just not my thing. So please be single. And between 30-45 years old.

Kink wise, I’m pretty run-of-the-mill. My limits include blood, scat, extreme stretching, and anything that should go without saying. I have yet to have a consistent play partner since beginning to explore kink, and I’m eager to explore more thoroughly with the right person. I very much enjoy impact play, and have a particular interest in incorporating music into play to fit different moods.

I enjoy power exchange. My job is basically topping from the bottom, and that’s not a natural role for me. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a total badass and that is natural to me. But I crave a connection in which I can trust someone to hold my power for some time, and hold all of it. That being said, I am NOT seeking a total power exchange. I am at the beginning of my career and that is where my focus is. TPE doesn’t mix well with that.

Physically, I am on the taller side and curvy. Light hair, light eyes, and moderately tattooed. I tend to dress casually.

Some things that might be dealbreakers in the long run, if that’s what you’re after: I am a cat person, do not want children of my own (it’s okay if you have kids), am agnostic/atheist, politically left, smoke pot recreationally, and vape nicotine.

So in short: F sub seeks monogamous M Dom for consistent in-person play, friendship, and/or relationship. If you choose to message, please include some substance :)