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Hello! I'm seeking a sub-leaning partner to develop an intimate, caring, fulfilling and meaningful connection with. Someone who can both embrace the Vanilla and Kink sides of myself.

About me:

Fast Facts About Me:

• Cis-Male; Viet/Chinese; Born and raised in California
• Just turned 36
• HWP/Athletically-toned
• Full-on Leftie Liberal who’s passionate about intersectionality and solidarity.
• 100% INFJ
• Vaccinated; DDF with test results

FUN Facts About Me:

• Former "Core" Gamers (Mass Effect, OW, Dead Space) demoted to Casual--still love Pokemon and Mario Kart, and would love to be indoctrinated into "Cozy" Gaming Culture.
• Photography is my passion. Animal life, portraits, landscape and, more relevantly, boudoir and BDSM (Looking for muses!) Also LOVE going on roadtrips, especially along the coast.
• Sci-Fi is my absolute favorite genre for film and TV. Aliens, The Matrix, Star Trek, Star Wars, etc.
• Been really enjoying the content on Dropout TV recently, and am thinking about getting a subscription
• Trying to pick up reading; probably will start with non-fiction?
• Favorite subreddits are r/witchesvspatriarchy, r/aww, r/catswhoyell, r/theocho, r/ContagiousLaughter

I spent my late teens/early twenties thinking of myself as the protagonist of my own anime -without ever admitting it to myself-. Yes, it was absolute cringe. I was unfun and had very little personality. These days, I contrast that by being more open and smile more without trying. So, basically I'm trying to be more like Paul Raud?

I work semi-normal office hours and also work as a freelance photographer on the side, but I spend my free time exploring the PNW (hope you enjoy road trips) to scouting out places to photograph, trying out new restaurants, and working out. I can also be a homebody, so I do love my days-ins enjoying some casual gaming and binging whatever the hell is trending on Netflix.

What I’m seeking:

A partner who I can call my queen during the day and my personal toy at night. (Open to a casual relationship, however)

I prefer someone who is

• Cis-gendered
• HWP, thinner or "funsized" women.
• My age or younger

Non-negotiable/Hard Requirements:

• Women
• local.

No men; no online. If you're past Marysville or Tacoma or a ferry is needed, you're too far, sorry =/

Race is not important to me, but physical attraction is, and I'm mostly attracted to Asian, White or Eurasian(Hapa) women.

As an INFJ, I get along INCREDIBLY well with partners who are extroverted, spontaneous, passionate, confident and energetic. So, ENFP's, basically. ALL or welcome, though!

I greatly admire women who are strong, independent, knows exactly what she wants from herself and her partner(s), and won’t let inhibition overwhelm her kinks and desires. So, I desire a sub who is physically-affectionate, service-orientated, "slutty", obedient, sexually-inclined and intuitive on how to please her Dom. Basically, my ideal partner is a strong submissive.

My kinks center around the objectification and mild humiliation of my sub, so my ideal partner would be someone who's receptive to that. Alternatively, I adore faux innocence (DDLG).

She would be my “sex slave”, “cock whore”, “grope toy”, “cum slut” or some other applicable humiliating noun. She’ll be someone whom I can teach, tie up, protect, spank, reward, collar and leash among other things. Fun ideas include her wearing apron and butt plug while cooking for me, wearing a karada harness underneath her clothing, immediately dropping her panties to the floor, being subject to freeuse play, etc, etc, etc

On the flipside, because I am seeking a two-way dialogue relationship, I would want to be her ideal Dom, owner and partner in general. I absolutely invite any sort feedback or concern that will help me be more appealing, fair and sexy to my partner.

And when it’s all said and done… She can gently and safely exit sub-space and do other activities with me. Vanilla things. This includes hiking, watching films, checking out new restaurants or going on roadtrips. Alternatively, we could have days-ins where we can enjoy playing Mario Kart/Smash Bros, binge-watching Netflix/Disney while cuddling.

What I have to offer:

Words of affirmation, emotional security, loyalty, private and safe play space, regular check-ins during play and aftercare.

And affection, unconditional nerdy trivia, spontaneous gestures of appreciation, flattering and embarrassing candid photos, broken-ass Viet lessons, and the best gluten-free pho you’ve ever had!

If I somehow managed to entice you and appeal to your proclivities, kink or otherwise, I want to hear from you!

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