What I’m looking for is a bit different task-based mental dynamic than what one might typically look for, but I figured why not shoot my shot!

Long story short, I’m trying an experiment of whether I can leverage my sub brain to get non-sub things done with the help of a Dom who can provide me with a structure. I’ve tried some systems in the past without much success and it’s been discouraging, especially in the past couple of months. 

The tasks in question range from things like updating work profiles, finishing a personal site that has been five months in progress, decluttering my home, planning out some events and gifts and a bunch of other mundane but important things. I’m not looking for a sort of TPE/give complete control of actions to someone else, but rather find someone who can support me and perhaps I can offer some kinky fun in return… 

About me: Neurospicy with a brain that goes super zoom, an overwhelming task list and a ton of sub energy that hits like crazy when receiving praise. I have a lot of anxiety and I’m trying to get better at managing it! Also big fan of anime, video games, board games and other fun nerdy things. 

I’d like to set the boundary of this being a non sexual arrangement for now, but would be open to exploring in the future depending on how things go. My main limitations are that I’m not too big on taking and sending sexual photos and I straight up can’t have sex, but if you have some other ways of finding satisfaction, I’m open to suggestions. 

Overall, I would like this to be a fulfilling arrangement as well for you. I’m very big on the service sub side with 0 brat energy and if you’re around locally, I wouldn’t mind satisfying your sadistic tendencies or letting you practice some bondage on me with the right safety things in place. 

Some systems that currently work well for me:

• A calendar that I can write out my event with natural language (call with friend at 8pm on 10/14) to add to it

• Listening to a podcast and committing to tidying up during the duration of it (this only works for some tasks that don’t require as much brainpower)

-  Keeping a small daily journal that I can only fit a few lines per day in and writing out the highlights of my day 

With all of the above in mind, here are some things that would be helpful to know in your response. The more detailed the better, since I thrive off of clear logistics. Feel free to include any additional information as well:

Previous experience: What have you done with previous subs in this sort of area that you found worked/didn’t work.

Platform: Ideally something that’s simple enough to pick up and use but also thorough. I’m a sucker for a good UI. Should be flexible if I have to take breaks in between (i.e. holidays, vacation, etc.)

Accountability: I’m definitely more of a praise-driven sub than punishment (in fact, I’d prefer things like spankings to be inflicted because it’s what my Dom desires). Not quite sure what would work best and very open to suggestions to what works for you.

Things you would like out of this arrangement: Admittedly, this is where the anxiety and self-doubt creeps in of “would someone actually be willing to put in this work for me, even if I can’t do xyz?” Again, open to discussions of what we might do or work towards in the future.

Thank you for reading through this lengthy post!