About me:

30M Dom from Europe. 180cm(5′ 11″) tall, dark brown hair and eyes, average build, going to the gym but not gym rat, just enough to stay healthy.

In terms of kinky interests, I have been interested in bdsm since long time, but I never had the chance to practice it, if not thorugh some online RP, so I consider myself inexperienced. I am really interested in the D/s or M/s dynamics, with a focus on the psychological aspect. I do think that the sexual aspect plays an important role but is not everything for me.

I will try to give a quick idea of who am I as Dom and what I am looking for:

I am a human, I do not fit the ideal of alpha male who never makes mistakes and does not ever feel weak. I do have issues and doubts like everyone else and I do want to find someone I can rely on during those moments.

I can be assertive and dominant when the time comes but it has to be mainly in the bedroom. Some teasing outside of sessions is ok but I am not looking for someone who is into 24/7 and would like to just leave everything to me when it comes to make important choices. I expect my sub to be obedient when I demand it during our sessions, or not if she is trying to get punished, but I need also her to be able to speak her mind when we are out of the bedroom.

As a Dom I am not expecting you to submit to me because I am better than you. I like myself but I do not have the arrogance to feel superior to others. I expect you to submit because you like doing it, because it makes you feel good, exactly as it makes me feel good hearing you say "Yes, Sir"

Kinks:

I will list a main list of kinks I am interested into and some hard limits (I do not expect you to perfectly match all this list. Kinks can be discussed and maybe you can get me interested in some of yours that I did not list here):

kinks: ropes (would like to learn shibari), obedience, training, funishments and punishments, pet play, free use, collars, leash, gags, degradation, humiliation

limits: ddlg, age play, race play, toilet play, diapers, scat, gore, extreme pain, in general all hardcore aspects of bdsm

Hobbies:

Putting aside kinks, I tend to have many hobbies more than focusing on just a couple and I like to get new ones. Anyway I do prefere nerdy ones:

videogames: mainly passionate about indie games, but also playing more common ones (overwatch, genshin impact, ...)

anime/manga: following seasonal ones from time to time, and keeping a small collection of manga

ttrpg: mainly DnD but also less known ones like Ten Candles or 7th Sea.

I am not sure if they count as nerdy but I am into animation and disney movies, and weirdly enough I enjoy musicals a lot.

Please mention one of your hobbies in your reply.

What I am looking for (Sub/Slave):

I am looking for a F sub/slave, younger than me, willing to get to know each other. In any case I do expect to know each other first before moving on towards any kind of dynamic. We can discuss both of kink and not kink aspects and eventually if we click we can plan sessions that are going to be online, eventually also via voice chat. I do not expect you to have an interest in similar hobbies, but of course that would be appreciated. Still I like to get new point of views from people who does not appreciate some things as me and I also easily get interested in new hobbies as long as you talk about them with passion.

I won't ask for pictures since I will not send them myself, at least not initially. I do not rule out the possibilty of irl but that would take long time and trust to be built (in this case also we will need to verify each other first).

If you contact me I will expect you to be ok with me being inexperienced. Anyway, even if inexperienced, you can expect me to respect limits and treat you as a human not a toy. Of course I will expect the same from you.

What I am looking for (Friend):

Since I am new in the community I would like to get to know people sharing interests (both kinky or not). Maybe you can share your experiences or we can talk about our fantasies, I am always ready to learn about new options. I would be happy to chat as well about your favorite games or your last DnD session.

So if you are interested feel free to contact me (dm or chat I don't have a preference) and I would really appreciate if you would share a bit of yourself in your reply. See you.