Hello everyone!

I'm looking for a submissive woman to develop a long term dynamic with. I'd like to say that gender or sex don't really matter, but this keeps resulting in men flooding my dm's. You all deserve affection, love and having your needs met, but I'm attracted to femininity. Buff bearded sissies just aren't doing it for me. Sorry guys!

When it comes to a submissive I'm interested in all kinds of dynamics; DaddyDom & little girl, brat & Tamer and slave & Master just to name a few. IRL is preferred, but I'm aware that finding another Dutch person here is rare, so I'm open to online contact as well.

About me

Those of you who are familiar with the Dutch know how tall we are. I'm no exception with my 197cm in length. Fit/skinny and blonde as well, so yeah, the stereotypical. I'm quite new to scene, but I can make it up with years of research, enthusiasm and willingness to learn. It just means I have to take things a little slower when it comes to IRL contact. I like to test boundaries, but I generally play it on safe as well. I also think it's important to get to know each other first instead of expecting servitude and assuming a Dom role right away.

There's a lot of kinks I'm into (see my kinklist). I think the main ones are orgasm control/denial, edging, spanking, ass play/anal, age play, bondage, pee. You are not expected to like all of these nor am I going to enforce anything (unless you want to, of course). Consent and respect are important.

If you're looking for a monogamous exclusive dynamic, I will have to disappoint you. I live together with my girlfriend (and our 2 cats). However, my girlfriend is very much into the lifestyle so no issues there. She may get involved at some point, but don't count on it. She's interested in women, but not when it comes to a D/s dynamic. Feminizing men and findom are more her thing.

About you

What I'm looking for in a sub:

• Women (or at least feminine)
• <35 years
• Non monogamous or at least okay with having to share me
• Open to a long term dynamic
• Bonus points if you are into TPE and envision a future living with your master
• Gotta love cats!

Feel free to send me a DM when interested. I'm also on fetlife. I actually prefer it for communication as I check it more often... and you get to see my gf's boobies on there!