Allow me to extend an invitation to a unique arrangement that my wife and I have navigated before with great success: We're on the lookout for a third - a woman who understands, or is eager to learn, the nuances of submission, and wants to be part of something where your pleasure comes from giving me mine.

Now, to give you a bit of context: I'm a husband, father, professional, and generally a well-put-together adult with the sort of job that pays handsomely but takes a good chunk of my time. In short, I won't be texting you non-stop - I've got conference calls, board meetings, and small humans to raise - but when I am around, I'll make it worth your while: In return for your submission and willingness to please, I will be your mentor, your Dominant, and the one who helps you grow into the best submissive you can be.

Think of it as "personal development" with a wicked and sexy twist.

I've been in the BDSM scene for many years now, and my wife and I have enjoyed a few memorable threesomes, all of which were mutually satisfying. This isn’t some experimental phase; I know what I'm doing. That said, I'm not the most experienced in online arrangements... My talents lie more in the "hands-on" department (pun intended), so there might be a few kinks (pun definitely intended) in the communication process... But don't fret - I'm a quick study.

What am I looking for? A woman who enjoys - or is curious about - submission. Specifically, I'm seeking someone who would thrive under a Dominant who isn't just after fleeting thrills but is invested in your growth and satisfaction as well. If you happen to enjoy the DDlg dynamic, that's even better, but it's not a dealbreaker.

The sexual part of the dynamic will be focused on me getting off, with my wife getting her own gratification from watching me enjoy myself. You won't be interacting with her directly, but you can imagine her smiling approvingly from the shadows, like a proud director watching a play unfold.

Beyond the bedroom, one of the greatest advantages of being under my guidance is that you won't just get a Dominant - you’ll get a mentor, a guide, and someone who's genuinely invested in your growth.

I've lived through more than most; navigating both the highs and lows of life with a measured, nuanced outlook that comes from hard-earned experience. I'm at home in many different environments, whether that's a boardroom, a dive bar, or the quiet solitude of a forest cabin. My tastes and talents are varied: from understanding the finer points of philosophy and human psychology to whipping up a damn good risotto. I've always believed that to truly dominate, you need to master yourself first, and I've spent years doing exactly that.

So, why would you want me as your mentor? Because I can offer you more than just my control - I can offer insight. I'm autodidact in many areas, well-traveled, and deeply introspective. I don't see life in absolutes; I know that everything comes with layers, and that’s how I approach people as well.

I understand that submission is a gift, and I intend to honor it by making sure you grow stronger, more resilient, and more aware of yourself. Whether you're looking to sharpen your discipline, expand your boundaries, or simply learn to live life with more confidence, I will guide you through that process.

You’ll blossom under my tutelage, gaining not just pleasure from our dynamic, but a deeper sense of who you are and what you’re capable of.

If you're someone who's ready to submit and grow, you’ll find that I'm not just here to dish out rules, but to help you develop in every way. I'll push you: Mentally, emotionally and sexually - and I'll make sure that, as my submissive, you become the best version of yourself. That’s the promise I offer.

So, if you’re ready for a Dominant who understands not just how to dominate but how to elevate, then you've found your man.

I'll be very clear upfront: I will have certain sexual expectations, and you'll be expected to meet them with enthusiasm and submission.

As for you... Ideally, you're someone who loves the idea of surrendering control in a safe, structured way. We'll take our time to build trust, and I'm a firm believer in open communication - so we'll be on the same page at every step of the way.

Don’t worry, I have a soft spot for beginners; you don’t need to come into this knowing all the ropes (again, pun intended).

So if you're looking for an experienced Dom who knows how to take charge but also understands you have a life outside the bedroom (or laptop or phone), and you're willing to bring your best submissive self to the table, let’s talk.