Hello! You can call me Alex. I'm a dom-leaning switch and I am looking to guide a girl in the practice of edging and orgasm control. If you have ever wanted to hand over your pleasure to a man, to feel owned in the most intimate of ways, or to simply be under someone else's control, then this post is directed to you. However, my goal with this post isn't sex. If you are looking for a conventional fuck buddy, that isn't what I am looking to provide. Rather, I want to provide something almost akin to a massage service or edging "therapy." One of us travels to the other up to a few times a week, and I spend up to a couple hours teasing and edging you with my hands, mouth, and maybe toys if you own them and want to involve them. I want to be the reason you need to change your panties in the middle of the day, the reason why your body aches for more, but above all else, the reason why you don't let yourself orgasm despite it all.

If you are unable to host, I live alone and can host at my apartment. I have a cat, so if you have allergies, we may not be a good match. But if you love cats, he is friendly and would be happy to meet someone new.

I don't expect to jump straight in to IRL meet-ups. That would be asking a lot. I'd like to spend a little bit talking online before meeting in person, getting to know each other and figuring out if we are a good fit first. I'd like to get along with anyone I decide to do meet-ups with. If you prefer, we could do a few online edging sessions before we meet up, though the goal would be to eventually have meet-ups. That way, we can have a set rule where I am the only one allowed to pleasure your body, in order to avoid "mistakes" while you pleasure yourself. And don't worry, I'd be happy to take you to dinner before stuffing my hands down your panties ;)

A bit about me - I am 6 feet tall, have red hair, hazel eyes, glasses, and fair skin. I work a 9-5 full time job, I like board games and occasional cooking, and I spend too much time thinking about philosophy. I love cats and (other peoples') dogs. My favorite dessert is carrot cake, and I will never eat tomato soup/bisque unless it is a dipping sauce for grilled cheese.

A bit about you - you must be clean. I am clean, and I'm not looking to pick up any STI's from this. You must be reasonably in shape. I don't expect you to be a paragon of fitness, but I prefer women who maintain a healthy weight. You must be 18-25 years old. Obviously the lower bound is a non-negotiable limit, but I'm flexible as long as you're under 30 if we get along.

Brownie points - you'll move to the front of the line if you have smaller breasts, if you have red or brown hair, if you wear glasses, if you are younger than me, if you have toys or are willing to get toys, if you live near Lansing, or if you open your message to me with Ludo. Ludo is a cactus. 🌵

Disclosure - I am currently in an open FWB-type arrangement with someone very interested in having me wear chastity, thus why I am not looking to find a conventional fuckbuddy. If this is something that bothers you, I understand.

If you've read all the way to the bottom, thank you! You must be interested in what I propose here. Feel free to reach out and introduce yourself, and let me know what about this caught your eye the most. The more you say in your greeting, the more likely I'll be to respond to you :)

I look forward to hearing from you!