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41 [M4F] #IRL #NH-MA-VT Autumn Vibes
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TheCalmHands is a male age 41 looking for a female in Massachusetts
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This is one of my favorite times of year. Going out to apple orchards and getting some warm cider. Cuddling with a loving partner. Some naughtiness before getting into bed. The crisp air. The color of the leaves.

I’m looking for a long term partner. My ideal submissive partner would also have physical touch as a primary love language. She would be experienced enough to be able to communicate her boundaries.

I’m trauma informed and do kink and non-monogamy coaching. I’m applying to a masters program for therapy. My career so far has been in creating professional BDSM movies. Consent and risk management are my first priority. BDSM for me is about mutually beneficial dynamics. Even if it’s a 24/7 TPE dynamic. Everyone involved needs to be getting something out of it.

The things I’m not interested in are few and far between. Public play that centers non-consenting bystanders. Race play. A few forms of various play that I’m just not interested in. Other than that I’m here for it. I enjoy variety. My super power is making my partner feel seen. I do my best to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for my partner.

My FetLife is Philos314 if you’d like more information about me.

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