I'll preface this by sharing that my typical style of play more favors schadenfreude than sadism. I don't typically eroticize pain, least of all causing it. Rather, it is incidental to the way I interact with submissive partners, and I typically revel in its presence much more than being its source.
A loss in the family, and the weight of experience outside my control has raised a desire to be the source of some discomfort (physical) for someone who thrives on the experience of it. Perhaps the weight of the past years has you feeling similarly, but from the other side.
As I don't typically live here (reasons for travel aforementioned), I am not seeing a regular partner. But, as I return regularly I am very open to repeat encounters if chemistry and schedules allow.
You should be intelligent, articulate, and thrive not simply on experiencing pain but being the source of catharsis for another. Be able to keep up your end of the conversation, as the moment of transition from pleasant banter to hair pulling is the one I relish most.
Send an introduction describing what in particular about this scenario appeals to you, a photo, and your availability in your reply.
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