24 year old Soft Dom from Europe is looking for his sweet subby girl for a long-term dynamic. For the foreseeable future this will remain online only, and I assume if you continue reading you’re fine with that.
About me:
24yo, 175cm / 5’9, Dark hair, lean build. Currently working a remote job, so available throughout the day. Been told I’m relaxed and easy going, but I’ll let you be the judge.
Outside of kink I’m a huge sucker for a good book and some nice music, with my favourites by far being 30’s-60’s fiction novels (from Asimov to Herbert to Heinlein) and late 90’s - early 00’s music in general (Seriously, I love it all - from Blink and SUM41 to Seether, Breaking Benjamin and Paramore).
But in general I’m happy to keep a friendly conversation going on almost any topic you might fancy.
If we talk kink - I have a little over 5 years of combined experience, both in person and online, with my focus mostly being on tasks, rules, rituals and pleasure control. I obviously got other kinks, and quite a few of them, but not all of those work as well online as they do in person, and some don’t work at all (sadly).
See a short list for your reference attached below:
- Overstim
- Posture & Speech control
- Pleasure control (edging, denial, no touch, temporary chastity if belt is available)
- Light bondage
- Impact / Pain play
- Latex / Rubber
- Sensory play (deprivation, wax, ice, etc.)
Expectations for you and the dynamic more broadly:
You: - Preferably 19 or older - Clean (No drugs, no weed) - EU/UK based (for time zone compatibility) although US EST/CET can work under specific circumstances. - Interested in taking this arrangement long term - Got your kinks and preferences figured out. I am not opposed to helping you explore, but jumping into the water when we’re both blind would be… challenging if we put it mildly - Clear and direct in your communication with me regarding any aspects of the dynamic proper. Please note, that this part is the dealbreaker to me.
They dynamic:
I do not expect this dynamic to turn into a 24/7 always online type of deal, since we (presumably) both have our own lives outside of kink, but having a casual chat and hearing “good morning” ever so often would definitely be nice, don’t you agree?
As for means of communication - Reddit chats are fine for some initial talks, but long term I would prefer moving to an outside app less prone to bugs and glitches. Calls, Video and sending Media are valid options we could (but doesn’t mean we necessarily would outright) build towards, as long as you feel comfortable.
What do I want to hear from you in your reply:
I am not gonna ask for anything extraordinary. Just a reasonably short bio, letting me know who you are, and why you decided to reach out. You don’t have to write an essay, but I can definitely appreciate a partner, articulate and precise in their speech.
So will that said - thank you for your time reading this. Hope we can talk later in the DM’s if you think our vibes match.
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