Hi, thanks for clicking my post. This turned out to be longer than I thought it would be, so please bear with me here.

I'm interested in finding a (hopefully married, but it's not a dealbreaker if you're not) submissive woman for an ongoing sexual relationship. What that looks like exactly -- fuck buddies, FWBs, or more? -- isn't set in stone in my mind and is very dependent on the dynamic that forms organically between us. I do know that I need a strong mental connection before proceeding past just chatting; I need to like and respect you, and I hope you feel the same way about any potential partner of yours. I also want us to agree that we both have a kinky side with no outlet, mine dominant and yours submissive, and you crave the release of letting go, submitting, and being used. I know that doing this with any partner requires a tremendous amount of trust, and I like to think I'm the kind of person who is worthy of that trust -- and I also know that I have to earn it. I'm looking for something ongoing, exclusive (unfortunately, we're not a match if you have or want more than one AP), and fulfilling for both of us.

Vanilla me: caucasian, over 6' tall, hwp, healthy and in great shape, excellent hygiene, STI free, well educated, left leaning, excellent and frequent communicator, easygoing and lighthearted personality (I'm genuinely nowhere near as serious as this post comes across), and not the kind of person you'd expect to find on the other end of a post like this.

Kinky me: honestly it's more fun to discover this stuff through conversation, but I'll say that I will always respect your boundaries and limits, always make sure you're more than satisfied, and I'm more than capable of properly using a willing, consenting, and enthusiastic partner. Also, while I'm a staunch ally of the LGBTQ community, I'm only looking for cis women.

About you: I'm not overly concerned with details, but please be: either attached or respectful of the fact that I am, attractive, smart, well educated, healthy, STI free, submissive, excellent communicator, and not the kind of woman people would expect to be replying to a post like this.

If any of this piqued your interest, say hi. I'd love to hear from you!