Hi, I am 30 and looking for a future partner who can be my submissive wife.

About me: I am someone who used to be a man who was in a Female Led Relationship and was drawn to this type due to strict controlling parents where despite the fact that I hated being controlled due to a psychological phenomenon called "trauma bonding" I was always drawn to a female led relationship despite the fact that FLR always brought me nothing but pressure and a lost sense of autonomy. However, now I have decided to embrace my true identity and be the dominant partner I should have always been and just be comfortable in my own skin.

In life, I tend to enjoy planning ahead, researching something and making decisions and just being in control. For me not having a plan feels like I am stuck in the middle of ocean with no sense of direction and its a state of mind I am not comfortable being in.

I am a person who is kind and understanding, I appreciate acts of kindness, love and just knowing that a women cares for me. As such, even though I am a dominant man, I will treat my future submissive wife with the respect she deserves unless she is being too disobedient or doing something that can negatively effect her health.

I am a hobby-hopping enthusiast! I have dipped my toes into everything from climbing volcano's to cycling to learning photography, and I'm always on the lookout for my next adventure. While I love the thrill of trying something new, I've also learned to appreciate the beauty of letting go without regrets

My rules in a marriage are as follows

1. No smoking
   
2. You will be naked at home and only allowed to wear a robe when going to the balcony, garden or are standing in front of a window where neighbors can see you naked.
   
3. No bikini's allowed as your body is mine and for my viewing pleasure only
   
4. Finances: I write down all my expenses in order to budget and keep track of my spending and thus I expect you to do the same. This way, I can decide how much your allowed to spend. If you're good, your spending limit will increase and if your bad, you're spending capacity will decrease.
   
5. Porn: you are allowed to watch porn but only in front of me and you will not delete your browsing history.
   
6. I have the right to check your phone anytime I wish, this of course applies to me as well where you have the right to check my phone.
   
7. You will be required to stay fit and work out with me. Of course, I don't expect you to follow the same work out routine as me because your physical capabilities will be different from mine.
   
8. You will be loyal and faithful to me and I will do the same to you.
   

Send me a message and let's be friends and get to know each other better and see how things go.