Be ddf & someone who can hold a conversation please, in the age range of 19-23, and in NYC (or close enough if you can drive). You'd have to be able to host btw. Please actually read stuff before reaching out. Reach out with your name, age, location, and give a face pic or something. If you're out of my age or location range, or don't respond with them, I'm not likely to respond

I'm 5'3 & south asian (desi), ddf. I don't send nudes, and you shouldn't expect sex.

This can be either long-term or short depending on what we want and our conversations (I'm a big conversationalist so please for the love of god be able to laugh about dumb things with me and talk about life and philosophy with me"). I want obedience from you and require that you will be honest with me. It's also important to note that I have a hairy pussy/ bush and I intend to keep it this way so don't bother if that's not your thing. I'm looking for something in-person but if we have great chemistry and conversations online, then that would be great. I don't just want to be a woman who's interested in this dynamic, I want to be a friend. And if it eventually ends up becoming something more, then I'd need monogamy.

Kinks: I have a huge thing with guys begging to lick/suck on my wet panties; watersports (I want to pee on you and have you drink my pee); pet/owner, praise (1 don't want to be called mommy-ofc I don't mind if it slips out, but I am affectionate); feet worship; COMFORT (if that's a kink)-1 don't have the perfect body but I'm comfortable in it. I have natural hair and I'll get rid of what I choose to. I have stretch marks and in terms of conventional attractiveness, I am average. I feel very comfortable with all of it regardless of how I want to improve it or how it changes so encouraging that is a big plus, and more importantly I want you to feel comfortable in your own skin as well; orgasm denial (it's so fun to deny someone an orgasm); receiving oral- beg for it or be ready for it- make sure I'm satisfied no matter what; pegging but I don't have a strap-on so only if you have a dildo. If not we can improvise 😈 jkjk (maybe not)

Three scenarios- We'll quickly meet up if you have a car, you lick my feet and then I go.

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I want to come to yours, trample you (including face but mostly body) with my feet, stick them in your mouth and have them worshipped and sucked as you're on the ground either on all fours or kneeling. I can leave after that or if there's a continuation:

Then I'm gonna take a nap on your bed while you massage my feet and lick my asshole until I feel like I've had enough of it. Nothing extreme- just want to look at you with curiousity while you're following me around and kissing up my legs. If I'm in the mood then I'll want my pussy licked. Either way I want to squeeze your head between my thighs and really tug and grip your hair/ slap you. I won't take anything too far and will treat you with respect so communicate with me, then we'll cuddle based on how I feel about you- or I'll just leave if I feel like it. I don't accept money (unless you yourself offer).

Limits: Other toilet play-I'm not into scat; vomit; degradation/humiliation that's actually mean-I'm not into lowering other people's self esteems; being called Goddess- I don't like that unless we develop real feelings for each other. Miss is fine; blood (other than periods maybe) and hurting you too much physically; people in relationships

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That said, not necessarily about this kink, I'm open to a potential relationship if it feels right. I'm a domme, but also someone else outside of kinks. I want something warm, affectionate, caring with someone perceptive and willing to be vulnerable with me. Someone genuine. Longform below, but in short, we'll know when we know I guess 🤷. 

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Something I think should be addressed relatively early on is if you or I feel ready for a relationship. If you're not open to a potential relationship, then please say so. If you don't think you should be/ are ready to be in a relationship I'd appreciate communication about why not & what you'd need in order to be. I'll try my best to be understanding, and to work through it with you if it feels like we should try for it. I want to grow together, and make sure we can make each other feel secure. I'm honestly hoping for someone who can teach me things too ngl. Help & encourage me to get to a better place & mindset. Let me know when I'm wrong, and what I should work on. If you can, teach me how to communicate more effectively and have a healthier relationship.

On the flip side, I don't really want to jump the gun. No one comes without flaws, and sometimes they can't be worked through with the wrong people or at the wrong time. If I don't feel confident enough about it, I won't get into it, so it's important that we establish a sense of familiarity and trust

Usually I'd prefer more organic meetings for something to develop into a relationship, but I might as well put it here too. I'd like to be able to connect as friends and not just as lovers. A good friendship with genuine romantic interest ig. I don't get too attached right away, I feel like it takes time and a lot of up and downs to really feel that sense of "connectedness"

If we click, somewhere near the beginning I'd like to have an honest discussion about our history (like relationships or sexual history), present, life and values. No fronts and no judgement. If that stuff isn't aired & communicated at the beginning, it's only going to get worse down the line.

It's awful when people get caught up in mind games so please communicate instead- even if it's rough to. I don't like the headspace I get into & the person I become in unhealthy relationships. I'd like someone who'll try to be understanding & kind even during arguments instead of being passive aggressive. And if you can't be, if it's something that makes you angry or upset, be straightforward about what & why. Tell me what will and won't work. what you need, and most of all if we can work it out in your opinion, and under what circumstances (doesn't have to be an ultimatum). If we don't want the same thing in a relationship, it's better to end it before it gets too serious or we get too attached.

I don't drink or smoke but am okay if my partner drinks or does weed (outside) in moderation. Not a party person, and it's okay if that's your thing as long as you're responsible. I'm agnostic. I'm monogamous, and only go into a serious relationship if I can see us being together for life (I'd like to marry & have kids someday). I'm not a public person- not very active on social media and stuff. I'd prefer someone who's more low-key about their personal life on the internet