Hey there! I'm a 33 year old dominant from Chicago. I spend a lot of time traveling so I'm open to chatting with anyone in the US. I'm 6'5", fit, conventionally attractive. I have 14 years of experience as a dom, and for the last few years I've developed a craving to dominate a couple. I had a brief but positive experience doing so, but was left wanting more.
Since there are a lot of preconceived notions about this sort of dynamic, I'll clarify what I'm looking for.
You're a happy, mature couple who has been together at least a few months. You've experimented enough to know what you're into. We'll get to know each other and start as friends, then I'll gradually build up to being your dominant. I'd like to experiment with bull/cuck play, and dominating both of you as a couple. I'm not looking for something strictly sexual - we should enjoy each other's company outside the bedroom as well.
This dynamic will include:
- Safety, respect, boundaries, and consent
- Rules around how you behave towards me and each other
- These rules would be enforced by discipline (spanking, humiliation, privileges revoked etc.)
- The male having anywhere between zero and moderate physical involvement (spanking, rough handling, collaring etc.), but will *not* be doing anything penetrative with the male
- Varying degrees of intimacy with the female, from limited play all the way up through bull breeding (huge bonus if the latter is of interest)
Ideal candidates would be:
- 20 - 35 years old
- Stable, reliable, communicative
- Both M and F are informed and involved from the first message - no exceptions
- HWP, easy on the eyes, not covered in tattoos or body modifications (no offense, just not my thing)
- Drug and disease free
- Preference for intellectual, artistic, or academic types
- The female should be sexually submissive or a switch (but not strictly dominant)
- The male should be sexually submissive with cuck tendencies (but should not a switch or dominant)
- Ideally near Chicago, but open to elsewhere within the US/Canada
If you're interested, chat or DM me with the following:
- Ages
- Location
- Physical descriptions (SFW pics welcome too)
- Aย bit about your existing relationship, what you're seeking, and any kinks you'd like to share
- Your activities and interests outside of kink
I look forward to hearing from you!
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