I believe its gonna be more than an year since I have realised my likeness for BDSM and my attraction towards being a submissive. I have had a few of this dynamics in the past, short termed but I think I have learned my fair share of things and I’m always willing to learn more. As far as my experience have told me I identify as a submissive, brat and a masochist. Mental domination is more important for me than physical. Having said that, I don’t mind I’m not into the physical aspects of a BDSM dynamic but nothing compares to the feeling to a shiver running down my spine every time I hear my Dom talk to me or he reminds me of my place (this has been very rare, not many have been able to do this) So, if you’re someone who doesn’t understand mental domination and how it works, we will not be a right fit.

What I expect from you as my dom:

1. For me BDSM is also about power exchange. I would always want to worship my Dom, be under his control (considering he has earned all of that) and hence, Power Exchange is my major kink. I want a dom who understands how this works. But, at the same time I understand that this takes time so I would like to be with someone who is into developing it gradually and not directly jump into it with rules and stuff as it can get overwhelming.
2. I respect both sexual and non sexual aspects of a BDSM relationship. So, I would expect my Dom to train me in both aspects. As I mentioned above, mental domination is a priority for me. This can include humiliation and degradation as well. (I have not explored much of it but my little experience says I’m into it). To be honest, its 60:40 ratio for me. 60 being non sexual (mental domination) and 40 being sexual. So, if you don’t feel the same, we may not be a right fit.
3. I believe communication is very important for me and when I say communicate everything, I mean EVERYTHING. As it is an online dynamics, communication is the ONLY way to know what we are going through and what can make the dynamics better.
4. I require someone who has time to contribute to the dynamic. I understand being busy because I’m working as well but if your job is too demanding and you cannot contribute time, we will not be a right fit.
5. I want a dom who has a balance of dark and light. Someone who is sadistic enough to get pleasure out of my pain and at the same time can laugh with me.
6. I want to be with someone who can break me but at the same time take care or me later on.

Somethings that can be a dealbreaker for you:

1. I won’t jump directly into a dynamics, I would like to know and understand you first and will expect vise versa. If you’re looking for just play time. I’m not the one for you. 2.The age I’m looking for in partner (give or take a couple of years if my post really spoke to you) is- 24- 35.
2. I want a Dom who is experienced and knows what he is doing as I believe I would be better suited with a partner who I can trust and guide me through this.
3. I’m not looking for someone who has is more than 2 hours ahead of IST.

My kinks: Mental domination, power exchange,TPE, Bondage, edging, orgasm control/denial, pun/funishments, impact play, nipple play, teasing, Humiliation and Degradation, CNC, Misogyny, possessiveness, praise and open to more.

Hard Limits: Nothing illegal, blood, scat, piss play( there can be more) No body shamming while humiliating or degradation Sharing pictures of my face.

Soft limits: Sharing nudes (can share after getting to know each other a bit)

If found my post interested, drop me your location, age and a brief about yourself. Please don’t reach out to me if you do not resonate with my post. I DO NOT want someone who I can fuck around with, I want something more, something more meaningful so do not reach out because I will not reply. And if you do resonate with my post, don’t hesitate to reach out.

Looking forward to hear from you:)