Hi! So I’m a 26 y/o trans femme sub seeking a long term dynamic with a dom/domme to help me with weight loss. I started putting on weight during covid and haven’t managed to shift it yet… I’m pre-HRT but will hopefully be starting soonish and looking to lose as much weight as possible before starting. This would hopefully involve helping me control my diet and motivation for exercise, with the use of punishments to help keep me on track. I also enjoy the idea of being molded by a dom/me -I enjoy the idea of being slowly changed over time into my owners perfect idea of a submissive.

About me: I’m chubby, quite short, with long hair. Try to be femme as often as I can, but facial hair does get in the way, so please manage your expectations. I’ve been on an NHS waiting list for years and haven’t had the finances to go private (which should be changing soon). I’m happy to send pics once we’ve established trust (happy to send face and SFW pics earlier however).

As for why I’m seeking a dominant for this? I’m very kinky, submissive and would like to use this to my advantage! While I’d like a dominant who can help me lose weight, I’d love the dynamic to include all kinds of kinky fun as well! I’ve been playing with kink for a long time and have had some amazing experiences.

I won’t go into a full kink list here (I’ll save that for a chat), but my limits are: blood, knife play, scat, feet, misgendering, exposure / blackmail and permanent marks. Always up for trying new things, so happy to entertain your kinks.

Ideally I’d like a IRL or mixed dynamic, so someone either based in Scotland or in the UK and up for meeting up as regularly as we can! Happy to travel regularly for the right person. I would be okay with an online only dynamic though, as long as our timezones aren’t too disparate.

I’m pansexual and open to all genders and gender identities too. All I ask is that your older then me :)

If you’ve made it to the end of this post, congrats! If you could also include your favourite colour in your message, so I know you’ve read the whole thing, I’d really appreciate it!

Looking forward to hearing from you!