Short and sweet:

I'm a dom-leaning switch, and I enjoy all the dynamics I'm currently involved in, but I'm in the driver's seat in every single one of them. I am craving some variety, and I want to explore one of the more extreme scenarios that has always interested me.

I have a huge kink for heavy, extremely restrictive and immobilizing bondage, as well as erotic hypnosis/brainwashing/mind control. I want to play out the fantasy of being strapped into a machine by a mad scientist or faceless malevolent operative and being totally stripped of my mind. This is the core want here- the details can be negotiated.

Quick thoughts:

-This can include things like forced orgasms or sensory play (sensory deprivation is a plus), but it's not required.

-If you're a dom, a heads up: I'm really not interested in submission in the traditional sense- as a mental or emotional process in a power-exchange relationship. The specific scenario I've mentioned appeals to me, but I'm not going to call you master/mistress, daddy, etc. I like bondage as a sensation, and hypnosis as a surrender of control, but I'm I'm not looking for a D/s dynamic as a sub- I'm looking for this one specific thing. If you are a dom exclusively, please understand that I'm trying to make this clear outright.

-If you're a switch also, that's great! I give as good as I get, if you'd like to trade back and forth, and my interests as a dom are a lot more varied. I would really enjoy playing with another switch, in a situation where we can both view one another as equals, facilitate an activity for one another, and maybe watch a bad scifi movie as aftercare. If you have an itch you're trying to scratch, too, run it by me!

-Things I'm looking for from you: shared interest and enthusiasm where this type of kink is concerned, basic safety awareness for bondage, good personal hygiene, relaxed and fun-focused attitude, at least 25 years of age

-Body type, gender, and other background details are a non-issue. The requirements I've described matter, but these things really don't.

-As this is not "entry-level" kink stuff, and requires a lot of trust, I will want to talk and get to know you for a few days, exchange SFW photos, and then meet in a public place for a negotiation talk before discussing meeting for any scenes.

-I do not currently wish to host at my home. I am open to you hosting, or splitting the cost of a hotel/rental if we both feel we'll get something out of playing together.

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