Greetings and thanks for taking the time to read my post. I’m Nick; 6’, 185lbs, HWP…pic is from 10/3/24. Your age and race do not matter. While a baseline attraction is a necessity, what things truly hinge on is the connection; the vibes, banter and ability to communicate. But I’ll touch on all that further on in the post, let’s talk kinks!

Full-fledged pleasure dom; NOTHING brings me more joy than making my partner cum hard and often. I trend quite soft early on as we learn one another, though I am willing to ramp things up quickly to maximize your pleasure. Essentially as in any relationship communication is key…hell even more than usual, particularly if you’ve interest in exploring rougher kinks. 

Experienced in sensory play, anal training, restraints and more. Very fond of the DD/lg dynamic, particularly if there’s an age gap, though it’s not an absolute necessity. Supremely adept at edging and will learn where your edge is swiftly, then hold you there until I decide you may cum (and cum, and cummmmm). Some of my preferred kinks are nipple play, breath play, anal including giving oral, spanking (hand or implement) and slaps, particularly on your tits and pussy. Limits are scat, blood, puke and other men…I simply can’t/won’t share my partner with another male. 

If you’re into being Daddy’s little girl; you’ll be both my pretty princess and dirty slut, again contingent on communication. I enjoy engaging with little space including praise and lending a hand, but will require quality time outside of it as well. Rough day at work? Homemade dinner, cuddles and cummies. Feeling sick? Homemade soup, blankets and a doting Daddy caring for you until you’re well again. Speaking of care, as good a time as any to transition to the non-kink aspects of a relationship.

When it comes to being active or getting out of the house, I enjoy many things including: yoga, weights, long walks, exploring state parks, fishing, gardening when I’m able (can’t where I rent), kayaking, tubing rivers, hitting festivals or dive bars…just living life, you know? I’m of the opinion the “who” matters more than the “what” when it comes to having fun, anything can be a blast with the right person. I do enjoy a good cocktail, and am exceedingly 420 friendly. 

In the winter I tend to hibernate, great time to catch up on reading, shows/movies and trying new cooking projects. As alluded to above, I’m an exceptional home cook and one of the ways I show love is in the kitchen. Mexican food, homemade pizzas, homemade mac n cheese, soups and so much more. I am a gamer as well, which would be a fun shared hobby…I own all three current gen consoles. I understand gaming is somewhat controversial in the dating world so just know this: were it not a shared hobby, it would be reserved for times when we’re apart or doing our own thing. NOTHING would come between me and a committed partner, least of all a bunch of damn pixels. 

I’m beholden to remaining in Wisconsin but enthusiastic about moving therein when the time is right. Currently rent a two bedroom duplex so would have room to accommodate a partner should we decide to cohabitat before the move (not mandatory by any means, just sayin’). Own my vehicle, I’ve been at my company for nearly a decade, credit is good…things are great, outside of missing that special someone. 

I existed for too much of my adult life in a dead marriage; so I’m something of a touch-starved mofo. Physical touch and quality time are my love languages, so outside of our kinks I do enjoy cuddling and other physical displays of affection. I’m a fantastic kisser with a flair for the romantic, though given where I’m posting this, I do want to make clear that won’t stop me from indulging our roughest kinks and pushing your limits if you so desire.

I’ve blabbed enough haha; thanks again for taking the time to read. Some people pursue kink as an avenue to many partners, and so long as all parties are on board I say more power to them…we only get one go-round. However, what really motivates me is finding that one sub I connect with on a different level; getting to know each other, supporting one another and making our dynamic the most amazing we’ve ever imagined. Look forward to chatting if you’re so inclined and best of luck if not, rough AF being single out here.

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