I’m an experienced submissive looking for a Dom with a proven track record of respect, patience, and deep understanding of the D/s dynamic. My submission will not be easily earned, but for the right person will never regret making the effort. 

About Me: I have experienced enough D/s play to know my needs, kinks, and preferences but have yet to find a Dom I fully trust to develop an in-person long term dynamic. I’m now ready for an in-person connection but am comfortable waiting for the right match.

Kink-wise, I enjoy emotional masochism, sexual service, exhibition, impact play, and bondage. There are a few other things that excite me, but those are for when trust has been established. I’m also open to new experiences and ideas.

Hard limits include body fluids in certain ways (I do not swallow) and age play, though I do enjoy a CG/lg aspect at times. While I appreciate emotional masochism, degradation is a no-go for me. Anal stimulation is welcome and encouraged, but penetration is not an option.

All other aspects are up for negotiation to find a balance that works to meet both of our needs and desires. 

What I’m Looking For: I want a Dom who:

• Is located in the Dallas area and available to meet ~once a week. For the right connection I would enjoy growth in this area. If you are not in Dallas, you must have the ability to come see me on a regular basis, and soon after we start developing a connection. 
• Is single, or in an ENM relationship. Don’t ask, don’t tell situations are something I can respect for your relationship but not something I am interested in being involved in. 
• Has the desire for only one sub, regardless of relationship orientation. 
• Is someone who self-identifies as a Dom (kink is a lifestyle, not just a hobby)
• Holds their sub to high standards but recognizes and respects their humanity.
• Values care, tenderness, and effort.
• Is comfortable with clear communication, mutual respect, and matching energy.
• Wants, desires, and encourages mutual obsession. 
• Wants to spoil their sub, both emotionally and physically. I would like someone who enjoys “taking care” of their sub - special dates, trips, tokens of affection, etc. I am *not* looking for a sugar situation, and do not require this - but I enjoy feeling (and showing) gratitude to someone who wants to do this for me. 
• Enjoys the process of teaching and training their sub to be exactly what they need and want 
• Doesn’t want to settle for their sub. I am often considered unreasonably selective and I want you to be too.  
• Knows their worth, and have put in a tremendous amount of work in becoming the best version of themselves, and will continue to do so, and wants someone else who can recognize that worth. 

In a non-D/s context, I am married with children, and have practiced ENM throughout my relationship. We are drama-free and highly autonomous. I am based in East Dallas, and my availability is ample and flexible, though I highly prioritize time with my children. Physically, I’m petite in both height and body. Plus, I’m hot ;)

What I Offer:

• Deep understanding of D/s dynamics, especially the mental aspect of a dynamic
• Patience and respect for mutual growth
• A genuine desire to build trust and a long term connection
• Loyalty and service catered to your specific desires
• Innate ability to anticipate your needs and wants so that you feel fulfilled without having to ask. 
• Clear communication - what I say is what I mean. 
• A soft spot to be vulnerable
• Predictability, I am not someone who will throw you for a loop on who I am
• I have profoundly euphoric experiences that you will not be able to get enough of ;)  
• High intelligence 
• Ability to embrace all the parts of me and know which part aligns best with my Dom’s needs
• Someone you would be proud of calling yours, and to show off should you desire 

Reaching Out:

If you are an experienced Dom looking for a meaningful connection and dynamic, please send me a message about your experience, what you’re looking for, and how you approach building trust and connection. Please also send a face picture, I am open to all body types and ethnicities - I need someone who can show their own vulnerability first.

Additionally, if you aren’t a “perfect match” based off what I’m looking for, please acknowledge that upfront. I can be flexible on some things provided that my potential Dom is self aware enough to know it about themselves. 

While I come across as very particular in this post, I am actually much more relaxed than I may come across as. I simply do not want to waste your or my time/energy, I am excitedly anxious to find the one who will call me theirs.