Hi, I’m Tom, and I’m in search for a play partner loving tasks hoping it down the road leads to being longterm as I value commitment.

As a master I like being in control and getting creative setting tasks for you and have recently adopted the app Obedience to better organize tasks and rule-following. But understand if its not wanted.

I really love seeing you spanking yourself and challenging yourself, but for me it doesn’t have to be hardcore tasks, as I find more vanilla tasks just as exciting, when coupled with the control-aspect as I like taking charge and control. As a stern but fair master would do.

I have experience in full ownership with a great girl sadly forced to stop and being daddy to a couple of girls, done online and call myself the caring master, where limits are a key for me. And where I see it more than a partnership than a sub/master dynamic.

Your limits, under my protection will of course be respected as well as any needs for anonymization as long as you will.

In daily life I strike a good balance between being very supportive and caring, but also setting things straight when I don’t think things are done to my liking/rules we both agreed upon are kept. Or my sub gets to bratty. Please test me ;-)

For me it’s important to be mind full of always respecting my one and only as it is more of a passion partnership in my eyes and feel its important to share other interests as well, as you mentioned.

I give my sub, if wished upon, rights to be intimate elsewhere. If you want. And I will encourage you, but always with the expressed wish to see hear all about afterwards. That’s one of my kinks :-)…

As well as roleplaying controlling you in public, you letting me decide what you can or can’t do. And give you permission and encouragement to enjoy yourself. At all times. It might be leading q’s but it’s fun to do. I can send an example.

A little about myself; I’m 40, enjoy working out, bouldering and road biking, I’m 175cm (5’7) and 73 kg and used to long distance relationships as long as 8 time zones (Denver).

I’m dying to know your kinks so if you’re interested, please name some of them and your favorite tasks and we’ll chat to find out if it’s a fit.

Tom The Writer

FetLife: @Calligrapher App: Obedience