Hi all! I am looking for a Dom near St Louis (I live on the IL side, but work in Clayton). I found an amazing online Dom earlier this year. However, due to a large age gap and the distance between us, we both agree that finding something closer to home would be ideal.

I have very little in person experience. Ideally I'm looking for an experienced Dom who is closer to my age, patient, and would love to show a newbie like me the ropes (pun intended 😉). BUT, I would like my D/S relationship to be my life partner if the compatibility is there.

Kinks: I love the idea of any and all bondage, training, edging, forced orgasms, praise, gags, and anal. Additionally, throat fucking, dp, M/s, and tons more are on my list of the things I want to eventually try.

Limits: Blood, scat, vomit, face slapping, and spitting

What I'm looking for: If possible, I want a ltr relationship with the right partner. Someone who loves to be silly and have fun, yet can be strict and Dominant at the same time. I am a nerd at heart, but also do my best to stay active and have lost 60lbs over the last three years. I don't expect my partner to be a fitness model because I'm definitely not. However, being clean cut and taking care of yourself is important.

I would prefer someone no more than 15 years older than me (45), and at most 5 years younger (25). But am open to individuals outside that range if we match super well.

About me I am athletic, bubbly, nerdy, artsy/very creative, I laugh at my own jokes, and love lifting weights/swimming. I would love to play video games with you, but also go out and enjoy a festival, concert, or any other activities. I don't watch TV on my own (I currently don't even own a TV), but I'd love to snuggle with my partner while watching a movie or reading together.

I'm most likely wearing a cute dress, or athletic/workout comfy clothes.

My top three love languages that I need are, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation.

My favorite date ideas: It's spooky season, want to carve a pumpkin with me? Have our own paint night? Thrift shopping? Play games? Put together a puzzle? Putt Putt golfing? Go to an arcade? (I'll kick your ass in skiball)

Appearance I'm plus sized/curvy or whatever you want to call it, but I enjoy being active. I love lifting weights and cardio at the gym. I recently moved and had to leave the gym I've gone to for the last four years, so I'm trying to reestablish my fitness habits. I am comfortable in my own skin, but will always keep working to better myself. I'm (slowly but surely) working my ass off, but I'm not going to be for everyone.

I also have long, straight, strawberry blonde hair, freckles, greenish eyes.

Last note, please PLEASE message with more than "hey" or "wanna fuc?" I want to get to know you and will not respond if you clearly are only looking for one thing, won't put in any effort, or if it is very clear you haven't read my post.

I look forward to meeting you ❤️☺️