Hey there! I’m posting again because I obv have to emphasis on things for people in the back.

READ CAREFULLY BEFORE WASTING ANYONE’S TIME.

I’m new to using online to search for anything like this. I even tried the app Fet, but got too overwhelmed and uncomfortable with how many messages I got.VERY few of those messages respected that I was looking to learn each other first, not start out with any play right out of the gate.

Now I feel like I’ve backed myself into a corner. It doesn’t help that I grew up in a very conservative family/community so this is making me incredibly anxious. But! I promised myself I’d be brave and try anyway. (Bear with me please hehe;) )

I’m needing someone with kindness,patience, good communication skills, caring, empathy, emotional intelligence, and even temperedness, someone to keep me focused (looks aren’t that big of a deal but I really don’t want someone out of shape).

Looking for a 24/7 TPE D/s relationship down the line but a friend till I trust you.

About me:

I’m slim thick AA/puerto rican (this means AFRICAN AMERICAN AND PUERTO RICAN, curly hair to my upper back when straight and no I will not feel shitty about it) !!!! mother of one 3yr old!!! ,athletic build,160lbs, not much up top but below the waist  makes up for it. I’m disease free and will be happy to get tested whenever :)! I have BPD(borderline personality disorder)& ADHD but I’m very enthusiastic, very silly to most I’m always laughing and goofing off. {bad at talking about myself so if you need to know more please ask; I’m open to talk about anything and tell you anything} 

I can offer my commitment to the fulfillment of our dynamic needs.

As a person I offer submission, affection, worship ,and lots of Service-oriented submission including activities such as light housework, serving drinks, assistance with food prep, or relaxing massages.. I offer fun times both during play and when just hanging out or on dates.

Hobbies: Reading, gaming(a lot), writing, dancing, walks, occasional gym, painting, social media editing for others. I love the comfort of My home, but I could enjoy a night on the town anytime . 

Kinks or what I’m looking to have: 

-obedience training, attire control, and feminization.(if you’re into this be willing to understand I’m not white I come from a cultural race with curly hair but I’m willing to straighten it and even wear extensions if you like, again I will not be made to feel bad about my natural state)

-Orgasm control and conditioning, edging, and forced orgasm.

-Dates and vanilla activities not focused on BDSM.

-Lots of cuddles and love.

-pampering

-Regular BDSM play including but not limited to bondage, S&M, sensory play, and ofc inter course on the regular

-Bondage(latex, leather, silk, rope, tape, cuffs)

-CNC

-Outfit Control

-Light Humiliation

-Forced Orgasm

-Nipple Play

-Body Worship (cock warming /worship)

-Anal Play

-wax play

-Public play(vibrating panties, vibrating plugs, hidden nipple/clit clamps, teasing)

-Light Torture (breasts, nipple, ass, pussy)

-Breath Play 

-Task receiving (rewards, punishments)



The list goes on, feel free to ask if you’re curious!

My hard limits are: scat, branding and race play and being a dick. These won’t be tolerated from anyone.

Hope to talk to you soon my future daddy

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