Hi,

thanks for visiting my post :)

First, what am I looking for?

A friend around my age to casually talk and explore kink with, preferably in Zurich, so talking in person is not out of question. The exact details of our dynamic I'm open to explore :) I'm also open for a relationship but that's not a focus.

But now about me:

I'm 26, 6'3" (190cm), 95kg, blond curls, blue eyes, big smiles that throw many wrinkles in my face :D I'm happy to share a picture over chat.

I'm a mix of an energetic person and a calm person. Sometimes I love telling stories, being the center of attention and making people have a good time, other times I love being silent and just listening and observing. I like the feeling of looking back to your past and seeing that you've grown. I like to throw myself at challenges and see how I handle things and what I can learn from new uncomfortable situations. Someone called me border collie energy once, make of that what you will. I usually have a smile on my face.

When it comes to being sexually submissive, I love to please people. I like some energy and playfulness, and laughing while having sex is something I enjoy. Slow and sensual or rough and dirty, there is a time and place for all of it. But I am generally here to explore and am quite open-minded, so I like trying out new things with my partners. To put some general labels, I like orgasm control and slight humiliation. I'm getting more into anal (recently ordered my first anal toys). I fantazise about pegging but have no experience so far. I find CEI very arousing and would love to try chastity once. I further like the risk of outdoor stuff and the adrenaline rush that comes with it. In addition, I'm slightly masochistic and in general like the feeling of different sensations. I might be bi-curious but that is still under development. I‘m not into feminisation. My dominant part is less present, but I'm looking forward to maybe explore that further with you. It still revolves around me pleasing, but I do really enjoy being in charge with that and making someone melt through pleasure. Also just seeing (and hearing) someone go through different sensations turns me on, so I like to play around that.

But I definitely don't want you to be my kink dispenser. I'm looking to develop a friendship beyond just kink with you where we don't only turn to each other, when I'm (or you) are horny. I'm also fine however if our topics revolve around our kinks or experiences mostly. Just not a play-only thing.

Talking non-sexuality related things, I'm currently doing my PhD and often work too much. I like to question our future, talk about the development of society and like discussions about our role in it. Besides that, I enjoy cooking, cycling (gravel and mountainbiking robbe specific), going to the gym. I recently joined a choir and also now get excited about house plants. I like strolling through art museums or whatever event I stumble upon (flea markets, food markets, you name it). I like my cozy days with tea and reading a book and my wild days of staying out till 7am in the morning. Other than that, exploring new hobbies is something I enjoy, so you probably don’t need much convincing to get me to try something. I'm also really into tech, so everything technology fascinates me.

I feel like that's already on the border of too much for an introduction, so feel free to message me and let's have a chat :)